This happens a lot of the time; a man would claim to love a woman, and then when she gets pregnant, he would bail out on her. In the twinkle of an eye, the love turns to hate and the attention fizzles out into thin air, leaving the lady with the harsh reality that she’s alone in this.
What really could be said about such a man who would bail out on his lady after getting her pregnant? The following best describes such a man:
1. IMMATURITY
Like they say age is just a number when it comes to maturity; even though such acts of dumping a girl after she gets pregnant is mostly perpetuated by boys, older men aren’t also left. It would only take a mature man to stick with her and own up to his responsibilities.
2. WAS PROBABLY INFATUATED
Love doesn’t die overnight, but for a man who bails out on a pregnant woman, his love dies just at the mention of the word pregnancy. This goes on to show that his love and emotions for you were unreal and at most he was infatuated with you.
3. INSENSITIVITY
Leaving just the woman to bear the consequences of both the man and woman’s actions just shows how insensitive such a man is. Pregnancy should never be faced by the woman alone; it’s a trying time for her and she needs her man most at that point. Any man who can’t be there for his lady could be said to be an insensitive man.
4. SCARED OF RESPONSIBILITY
A man who runs away is a man that’s scared of responsibilities; this is probably a sign that he would run away from almost every challenging responsibility he faces. Everyone should be able to own up to his actions and responsibilities; running away from them just only shows how weak you are.
Denying a kid you own and running away from a woman you’re responsible for just shows a man that’s immature, shy of responsibilities and insensitive.
ViV