If you want your relationship to thrive, there are certain attitudes you should be on the lookout for.
Check them out below
1. You kill your relationship when your partner isn’t your priority.
2. You kill your relationship when you fail to forgive your partner when he/she wrongs you.
3. You kill your relationship when you repeatedly choose your friends over your partner. Your partner should come first most of the times.
4. You kill your relationship when you don’t take time to connect and communicate with your partner regularly.
5. You kill your relationship when you expect your partner to read your mind and know what you want or what’s bothering you.
6. You kill your relationship when you choose to criticize your partner.
7. You kill your relationship when you have unrealistic expectations on your partner. Your partner will feel crushed under the weight of your unrealistic expectations.
8. You kill your relationship when you always seek to control your partner. Being a control freak isn’t good for any relationship.
9. You kill your relationship when you choose to hide the truth from your partner. A relationship riddled with dishonesty is doomed to fail.
10. You kill your relationship when you always seek for who to blame. You can’t solve a problem when you fail to take responsibility for the role you played and instead look for who to blame.
11. You kill your relationship when you constantly nag. Nagging is the downfall of so many relationships.
12. You kill your relationship when you spend so much time on your phone and neglect your partner.
13. You kill your relationship when you let jealousy control you. Jealousy isn’t healthy and it’s a relationship killer.
14. You kill your relationship when you are jobless and choose to live off your partner. Nothing kills a relationship faster than a partner who chooses not to do anything to better his/her situation.
15. You kill your relationship when you hate your partner’s friends and/or family. Your relationship is on a ticking time bomb when you do this. You don’t have to love your partner’s family and friends but you shouldn’t hate them.
16. You kill your relationship when you choose to define your partner by your partner’s past rather than who your partner is in the present.
17. You kill your relationship when you compare your partner with an ex or the partner of a friend. No one should be a standard for your relationship.
18. You kill your relationship when you are always too busy to spend time with your partner. You teach your partner to live without you when you are always too busy to spend time with your partner.
Phil