Every woman wants to be with a man who relishes in his masculinity while also being a confident gentleman. As a woman, there’s nothing attractive about dating a guy who is immature and lacks direction. Every woman wants a grown up man who knows how to treat a woman.
Here are 14 signs you are dating a real man and not a boy
1. HE ACCEPTS YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE
A real man doesn’t try to change you from who you are but instead he accepts and loves you for who you are. A real man is proud of you and all you do and he also respects your individuality. A real man is happy to help you chase your dreams, making you a better version of you.
2. HE IS HYGIENIC
A real man is hygienic. You won’t find a real man with dirty underwear, dirty nails and unkempt hair. A real man knows the importance of maintaining a good personal hygiene at all times.
3. HE GOT PLANS FOR HIS FUTURE
A real man knows the importance of planning for his future. He is goal oriented and also hardworking. He knows what he wants in life and ensures he gets closer to his dream each day. A real man is focused because he knows being focused in life would help him achieve his dreams.
4. YOUR INTELLIGENCE MATTER MORE TO HIM
A real man loves your intelligence more than your looks. A real man understands that beauty is transient and doesn’t base his relationship on appearance. A real man won’t fall in love with you because of how you look but falls in love with you because of your intelligence and who you are.
5. HE HAS GOT HIS PRIORITIES STRAIGHT
A real man has his priorities straight. He knows what he wants from a relationship and you won’t find him sleeping around. A real man prioritizes his woman and also shows this through his actions.
6. A REAL MAN IS SELFLESS
A real man is selfless; he gives more than he expects. A real man would give you 100 percent in a relationship irrespective of how he is treated. A real man will always try to do the most he can because he doesn’t always expect to receive exactly what he gives.
7. HIS WORDS MATCH UP WITH HIS ACTIONS
A real man’s words match up with his actions. If he makes a promise, he would always ensure he fulfills his promise. If he says he would do something, he would ensure he does it. Real men are reliable.
8. A REAL ALWAYS SHOWS HE CARES
A real man is always happy to open the door for his woman and also take her coat. He doesn’t do this because he feels women are weak and inferior to him but he does this because he is strong enough o show that he cares about the comfort of the woman he loves.
9. A REAL MAN MAKES MISTAKES BUT HE WILL ALWAYS MAKE UP FOR THEM
Everyone makes mistakes, real men inclusive but real men always accept their mistakes without delay. A real man would apologize when he makes a mistake. A real man will always take responsibilities for his actions and will always be ready for the consequences, no matter how harsh.
10. A REAL MAN DETESTS LIES AND ALWAYS LIVES BY THE TRUTH
A real man values truth and detests lies. A real man would choose to be honest with his lady at all times because he understands the importance of trust in a relationship. He avoids lying because he knows how easily one lie can lead to another and turn into a vicious cycle.
11. A REAL MAN IS NOT A BAD BOY, A GOOD BOY OR BOY AT ALL; HE’S A MAN
A real doesn’t date a girl, he dates a great woman because he isn’t a bad boy, a good boy or boy at all; he’s a man. A real man is willing to wait and fight to get his dream woman and will gladly hold out for her as long as he needs to. When he finally gets her, he treats her like a queen that she really is.
12. A REAL MAN DOESN’T HAVE SKELETONS IN HIS CUPBOARD
A real man has nothing to hide. He has no skeletons in his cupboard and his past is an open book. A real man doesn’t believe in the adage “what she doesn’t know won’t hurt her” because he knows being open makes life a lot simpler.
13. A REAL MAN WON’T PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE ELSE
A real man would never try to be someone else just to impress a lady because he knows that isn’t true love. A real man would be his real self in front of you. A real man has no qualms crying, exposing his vulnerabilities or baring his heart to you because he trusts you with all his heart.
14. A REAL MAN ISN’T AFRAID OF FALLING IN LOVE
Most men guard their hearts and are so afraid of falling in love but real men aren’t afraid of falling in love. A real man has no issues expressing his love. He believes in love and would immense himself in love.
Do you have a real man? A real man is a man to die for. Ensure you keep him.
ViV