Almost everyone has had a crush at one point in their lives; either in high school, college, a neighbour or even a colleague at work.
Having a crush might be the most exhilarating and still annoying experience anyone can have.
If you think you are the only one who has had a crush, you are totally wrong; almost everyone has felt the same thing as you — and below are some ways everyone with a crush has felt.
1. YOU IMAGINE A FUTURE WITH YOUR CRUSH
This is a very typical scenario for everyone with a crush; you most times imagine what it’s like to be in a relationship with them, and some even take it further to imagine what getting married to that person would feel like. I’m sure you understand what I’m talking about.
2. YOU PLAN WHAT THEY WOULD SAY TO YOU
This is another typical scenario for everyone with a crush. In this instance, you would sit in the comfort of your couch or bed and imagine that man or lady tell you sweet and romantic words, like how amazing you are and how much they feel about you. You need to wake up from your dreams child. Lol.
3. YOU IMAGINE THEY HAVE A CRUSH ON YOU TOO
Sometimes the mind can really be deceptive, and one thing your mind might trick you to believe is that your crush also has a crush on you — what an amazing world it would be if all our crushes have a crush on us — there would certainly be an interconnection with almost every ‘crusher’ and ‘crushee’.
4. YOU GLORIFY EVERY INTERACTION
Having an interaction with your crush even if it was for 3 seconds might most likely be the best moment of your life. Every word said would be over-analysed, and you would most likely end up with the conclusion that your crush also has a crush on you too.
5. YOU GIVE IN YOUR BEST WHEN WITH THEM
Every kid is on their best behaviour when promised an item on the condition that they do certain things like chores and their homework. Likewise, everyone with a crush puts in their best behaviour when around their crush — they try to make sure nothing goes wrong. Whether things go right is usually one many cannot boast of.
6. YOU THINK ABOUT THEM WITH EVERY CHANCE YOU HAVE
This one is also a given; every spare time you have is definitely dedicated to thinking about them, and sometimes they even take a chunk of your time meant for something else.
7. YOU THINK ABOUT THEM THINKING ABOUT YOU
When you have had enough fantasies about your crush, you turn the table around and imagine them thinking about you just as much as you think about them. It’s a crazy world right?
8. YOU CHECK THEM OUT ON SOCIAL MEDIA
Things were easier back in the days before the social media age; but things have become worse right now — Facebook has made it easier to stalk on a crush, and this would only heighten your fantasy about that person. What a world we live in.
9. YOU ENJOY EVERY MOMENT SPENT THINKING ABOUT THEM
When you have a crush, your dreams and fantasies become a better place to live in than the real world. Every moment spent thinking about them is usually your favourite.
10. YOU KNOW YOU ARE THE BEST FOR THEM
Deep down, you keep telling yourself that you are the best person for your crush and you wish your crush knows what he/she is missing out on.
11. YOU TRY TO PICTURE WHAT THEY THINK ABOUT YOU
There is no better mind reader than a person with a crush. Having a crush would make you try to picture what that person thinks about you. The worst part is that they sometimes don’t even know about your existence, except when they pass by you.
12. IT’S ONLY A CIRCUS SHOW
At the end of the day, you get tired of crushing on that person and probably see another person that tickles your fancy — and it all starts all over again from the first tip. It’s just like a roller coaster.
This article is dedicated to everyone who has had a crush — remember that you aren’t alone.
ViV