If a woman loves a man, she ought to show him that he’s a priority. It doesn’t end at saying you value and love him; you ought to make him a priority.
A lot of women want to feel special in their relationships, and many feel they deserve to be their man’s priority. But how many women go on to make their man a priority?
These tips would show you just how to make that man a priority.
1. MAKE HIM KNOW HE’S THE ONLY ONE
When you give your man reasons to believe that there is someone else in your life, it’s probably because he doesn’t feel like a priority to you. Be faithful to him and make him feel secure not jealous in the relationship; when you show him that he’s yours alone, then you show him that he’s a priority to you.
2. TREAT HIM LIKE ROYALTY
Every man wants to be treated special too; treat him like he’s royalty. I mean, your man should be your king or prince — treat him thus.
3. BE THERE FOR HIM DURING GOOD AND BAD TIMES
Be there for man and lend him support during the good times as well as the bad times. He needs you most during the bad times, and being there for him would actually pass a message that he’s a priority to you.
4. LISTEN TO HIM
Don’t just be a partner that wants to be listened to; listen to your man as well. When you listen to him, you make him feel special and that he has your attention. Listening shows attention and importance.
5. RESPECT HIM
Respect is an important part of a relationship, and when it’s lacking, there would definitely be chaos in the relationship. When you respect your man, you would respect his views, you would respect his role in your life and you would also talk to him in a way that signifies respect.
6. COOK HIS FAVOURITE MEAL
Almost every man has a favourite meal and every man who has a favourite meal love to be treated to his favourite meal. When you give him such a treat, especially if it’s unplanned, you pass a message that he’s a priority to you — and it’s a message he would gladly receive.
7. DO THINGS FOR HIM WITHOUT COMPLAINING
There is a difference between when you do something from your mind and when it’s done grudgingly. When you grudgingly do something for him, you make it less special and you pass the wrong message.
8. APPRECIATE HIS EFFORTS
Appreciation makes one feel special and valued. Appreciate your man for his roles and efforts in your life and by this you show him that he’s special to you and a priority.
9. GIVE HIM ATTENTION
Attention can’t be bought or falsified; it’s either there or it isn’t and it’s either real or lacking. When a man lacks attention, he becomes infuriated, but when he’s given attention, he knows that he’s special.
10. PARTICIPATE IN HIS HOBBIES
His hobbies may not necessarily be your hobbies, but when you share in his hobbies sometimes, you make him feel happy and you send a message that he’s really important to you — of course, he knows that his hobbies are totally different from yours.
11. RESPECT HIS NEEDS/ACHIEVEMENTS
Respect his needs and his goals in life; respect his job and also respect his achievements. A lot of married men complain of the lack of sexual intimacy years after getting married; attend to his needs too — that’s how you make your man know he’s a priority to you.
If you are with the right man, you ought to show him that he’s a priority to you.