There is someone special out there for everyone but we find ourselves searching in the wrong places most times. It’s easy to feel there is no Mr Right for you after ending up with the wrong ones many times.
There are certain things you might be doing that could hinder you from meeting your Mr Right and if you don’t correct these things, you might just not meet him.
Below are 10 things that will hinder you from finding Mr Right
1. YOU DATE THE WRONG GUYS
There is nothing wrong about having a particular kind of guys to date but have you ever asked yourself if that particular kind is the wrong type for you? You might think you know the type of guys that suit you but I always encourage ladies to try dating other types and stop limiting themselves. You never might know.
2. YOU ALWAYS RUSH THINGS
If you are always fond of rushing things when you meet a guy, you might find it really difficult meeting Mr Right. Your first date with a guy isn’t the proper time to discuss marriage and children. You would scare guys away when you tend to rush things. If it’s going to happen, it will happen so no need trying to rush it.
3. YOU DON’T GO OUT ENOUGH
This is the problem with most ladies, they rarely go out and I wonder how you expect to meet Mr Right if you don’t go out. Go to places you haven’t gone before and meet new people. When you always go to the same places with the same group of friends, you would definitely meet the same people. Change your routine and discover new places because you never know who you might meet.
4. YOUR EXPECTATIONS ARE TOO HIGH
You might struggle to meet your Mr Right if your expectations are too high. It’s okay to have standards but I also think you should be flexible too. You shouldn’t be rigid and insist he meets all your requirements; be flexible. Your Mr Right might not meet all the requirements in your wish-list.
5. YOU RARELY HANG OUT ALONE
It’s okay to hang out with friends as the fun tends to be unlimited but I also suggest you try hanging out alone sometimes. You might stop the right kind of guys from meeting you when you always hang out with friends. You are more likely to have a man walk up to you when you are alone than when with friends.
6. YOU WRITE PEOPLE OFF TOO QUICKLY
I understand first impression really matters but sometimes first impressions don’t tell the real story. Don’t be too quick to write a guy off after just one or two dates. You can’t know all you need to know about a guy after one or two dates. I suggest you get to know him a bit better before deciding if he is good for you or not.
7. YOU ARE NOT EVEN SEARCHING
I know you want Mr Right to just turn up one day and meet you but searching would also increase your chances of meeting him. Be willing to meet more guys and be friends with them, you never might know. I am not suggesting you become desperate, be willing to meet new guys and become friends with them.
8. YOU ASSUME THERE IS NO MR RIGHT FOR YOU
Sometimes due to age or past experiences, many ladies just assume there is no Mr Right for them. Just because you have been jilted in the past is no reason to give up on love and assume there is no Mr Right for you. You can’t meet your Mr Right when you think this way.
9. YOU ARE SO QUICK TO HAVE SEX
Jumping into bed too fast with him might hurt your chances of meeting your Mr Right. I suggest you make him wait a little before giving your body to him. If he truly loves you, he will be willing to wait and he will surely respect you for it in the long run. Don’t be too quick to sleep with him.
10. YOU TRY TOO HARD
Trying too hard can also ruin your chances of meeting Mr Right. Trying to get the attention of men by dressing provocatively will only lead you to the wrong kinds of men. I suggest you learn to relax and be yourself and let your personality do the talking.
Phil