It’s another Sunday, and another Sunday where we cap it off with our usually interesting and interactive debates bordering around things that concerns relationships.<\/p>\n
Today’s topic is an age long argument about washing a lady’s pant and underwear; ladies see it as romantic while men see it as creepy, most men I’ve come across frown at this.<\/p>\n
This promise to be another huge debate and it would be done by three of our writers; Viv, S.O.Z and Drama; click below to read Viv’s opinion on the matter.<\/b><\/p>\n
Viv<\/b><\/p>\n
To be honest, I don’t see anything wrong in washing a lady’s underwear, as far as she’s your lady and you are both in a relationship. What’s the big deal in it? After all most men live, eat and even sleep in there, so frowning at the washing part is plain hypocrisy.<\/p>\n
Now I have a question to the men; if your pregnant wife just gave birth and you don’t have a maid or anyone to help with the laundry, would you frown and fold your arms while the woman you claim to love wears dirty and overused underwear? What if she is so sick and needs to do her laundry and there is no one to help?<\/p>\n
It’s funny how a lady would wash her man’s cloths and undies and it would be deemed romantic while a reverse of the same tape would be called creepy; I don’t know if to term this act as hypocrisy or being over-domineering.<\/p>\n
If there is one person you shouldn’t be shy of it is the lady you call your ‘baby’, ‘sweetie’, ‘honey’ and the rest; if you love someone then there should be no hypocrisy in it, you shouldn’t be ashamed to help out. She is your lady and yours alone. So I’m sorry to disappoint y’all fellas, I see it as romantic, as far as it isn’t done to despise the man or it isn’t done out of laziness; the only thing wrong in this act is just the biased mindset people carry.<\/p>\n
Click below to read S.O.Z’s opinion<\/b>; I see a hot debate here<\/p>\n
S.O.Z<\/b><\/p>\n
I won\u2019t try to claim to be a good guy here and do something that I can\u2019t do; so I\u2019m sorry, I wouldn\u2019t wash my lady\u2019s pant or any of her underwear; come on!<\/p>\n
Most men would frown at it for reasons they can\u2019t explain but I would share some of the reasons why men don\u2019t like the idea of pant washing. First, men aren\u2019t built that way, men are more interested in more challenging physical activities than that of doing chores at home talk more of washing a lady\u2019s underwear. Men aren\u2019t built that way; same way a man would frown at changing a baby\u2019s diaper is the same way he would frown at washing a woman\u2019s pant.<\/p>\n
Secondly, it doesn\u2019t go down well in general human theory. Same ladies that would want a man to wash her underwear is the same lady that would chuckle whenever they see a man washing another woman\u2019s underwear; society isn\u2019t built that way and I won\u2019t be the one to change it.<\/p>\n
Finally, I don\u2019t think any man would wash a lady\u2019s underwear than a lady herself. She knows the underwear better, she knows how to keep it clean; men don\u2019t; a lady\u2019s undies require different washing technique to wash it when compared to a man\u2019s underwear; so what\u2019s the point doing something you won\u2019t do well.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m sorry ladies; I don\u2019t see it as romantic.<\/p>\n
Click below for Drama<\/b>\u2019s entirely different opinion \u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
Drama<\/b><\/p>\n
Is washing your partner’s underwear a romantic gesture? I think it absolutely is. Love is free and all- encompassing, so I don’t think we’re limited in ways we can show or express our love for our partner(s). I know It’s considered wrong in most societies for a man to do the laundry when he has a woman around talk less of washing even her underwear, but I find that quite unfair,\u00a0 funny and ironical at the same time. I’ll elaborate. Now, if you look around closely, you’ll notice that at least, 90% of men in a serious relationship have (or expect to have) their laundry (including their underwear) done by their partner, but would not harbour the thought of returning the favor to their woman even when she’s not healthy enough— the same person they claim to love and appreciate. It is utterly unfair and shouldn’t not be the case. Love is fair and should be understanding; if you actually love your partner, you should be comfortable enough to help her do her laundry (including her underwear) every once in a while. I’m not saying it should become habitual, but it doesn’t hurt to do it occasionally. It is a way of telling her that you in fact, do appreciate her and all the other times that she’s helped with the chores. Women are humans too; they’re not there to become slaves and bossed over, they deserve to be loved, appreciated and cared for; and one of the ways we can do that is by doing those things they would never imagine us doing. On a good day, tell her, “honey, take a day off, I’m doing the laundry today”. She might insist on doing it herself, but let her know you really want to, and you’ll see how delighted she’ll be in the end.<\/p>\n
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Do you wash your lady’s undies? Ladies, would you love it if your man helps with that? What’s your take on this?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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