The biggest killer of a relationship isn’t lack of love; it has to be immaturity. Immaturity encompasses everything that kills a relationship; most relationships wouldn’t have faded away if the man could have shown a bit more maturity.<\/p>\n
Most times immaturity has little to do with age but it has more to do with the mind. Perception, beliefs and even action are all conceived in the mind.<\/p>\n
A man’s act can make a relationship worthwhile or make it crash or have issues continually. Maturity is an essential tool for the success of every relationship; if exhibited in most relationships, break ups and its lot could just be a thing of the past.<\/p>\n
Love without maturity is like a child without home training. This is a must read for every guy.<\/p>\n
1. SELF-CENTREDNESS<\/b><\/p>\n
Nothing would kill a lady’s feeling for her man faster than when he always thinks of himself first before every other value in a relationship. The ‘me’ attitude is one that would take a relationship to the cleaners; no lady wants this and not every lady can survive this immature act. Self-centredness kills every essence of a relationship and must be let go of in order for a relationship to succeed.<\/p>\n
2. UNWILLINGNESS TO APOLOGISE<\/b><\/p>\n
Relationships should never be a war zone; “I am sorry” are three words that can take you where “I love you” won’t. Apologising doesn’t make you any less than a man; the ability to apologise makes you a more mature person but a lack of it shows the presence of immaturity. Sometimes, an apology is all a lady needs from her man to make peace exist.<\/p>\n
3. NOT LEARNING FROM MISTAKES<\/b><\/p>\n
The fact that a lady wants her man to be apologetic when he’s wrong doesn’t mean she would like it when he keeps making same mistakes over and over again. A man should always learn from a previous mistake; it takes maturity for a man to make a mistake and learn from it.<\/p>\n
4. FLIRTING<\/b><\/p>\n
I’m pretty sure every lady wants a man who would be hundred percent faithful to her; a cheating nature is a sign of immaturity and faithfulness comes with a lot of maturity. A man’s ability to keep to his promise of faithfulness takes a lot of maturity; cheating nature is what most ladies detest.<\/p>\n
5. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE<\/b><\/p>\n
A regular follower of articles on this site would know how much domestic violence is being criticised here; beating a lady would never make you a man; what would actually make you a man is the ability to control yourself when such crazy mood comes up. There is no gain in domestic violence; hitting a lady just shows how little you value her and it’s just a total show of immaturity.<\/p>\n
Shawn<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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