{"id":6079,"date":"2014-07-01T14:52:53","date_gmt":"2014-07-01T13:52:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=6079"},"modified":"2017-01-26T22:15:59","modified_gmt":"2017-01-26T21:15:59","slug":"5-major-reasons-women-dont-trust-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/5-major-reasons-women-dont-trust-men\/","title":{"rendered":"5 MAJOR REASONS WOMEN DON’T TRUST MEN"},"content":{"rendered":"

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It’s very normal to hear a lady say she doesn’t trust a man or men in general. Trust isn’t something that comes naturally, it needs a reason, it comes not just after an action but series of actions; meaning to gain someone’s trust you need continuity and consistency in those honest acts that you do and there should be little or no blemishes on your side to dampen the trust you’ve built. For women to trust men, it takes a lot which is why I did a topic on 6 ways you can gain a lady’s trust<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Easy as it may sound, it isn’t easy to gain a lady’s trust; it takes consistency in honesty to gain trust. Through that article, you now know how to gain a woman’s trust but it is as well important to know why women don’t really trust men.<\/p>\n

I bring you five major reasons women don’t trust men.<\/p>\n

1. MEN ARE NATURALLY PROMISCUOUS<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s easier to fetch water with a basket than to find a man who isn’t promiscuous; sorry if I took the example too extreme but that is what ladies think of men to be honest and they have a reason to. Men are easily the promiscuous type; sticking to just one lady is really not in a man’s nature and little wonder why men who are 100% faithful are lauded by women. This is the first and major reason women don’t trust men— a man’s nature.<\/p>\n

2. PAST EXPERIENCES<\/b><\/p>\n

Yes, women are tied to past experience a whole lot. It’s like every lady out there has a heart break story to tell or a painful break up or the story of her man that just won’t stop cheating or the combination of all. Past experiences from their previous relationships have made women build a major distaste in their mind which makes them have little trust for their man.<\/p>\n

3. YOU HAVEN’T GIVEN HER A REASON<\/b><\/p>\n

A lady might love a man but still won’t trust him. This isn’t because she doesn’t want to but because he hasn’t given her a reason to. You don’t tell someone to trust you; you show someone reasons why you should be trusted not by your words but by your actions; and most times men don’t give women a reason to.<\/p>\n

4. FRIENDS<\/b><\/p>\n

One thing I’ve noticed is that women are firm believers of the saying “show me your friend and I would tell you who you are”. Men don’t necessarily believe in this but women do; if you keep friends that cheat then she won’t trust you because she believes if your friends cheat then you would cheat also; it’s a case of birds of a feather to them.<\/p>\n

5. DISHONESTY AND THE FLIRTY TYPE <\/b><\/p>\n

If you are dishonest in your ways, you lie a lot and you are the flirty type then you won’t give her a reason to trust you. You can’t keep flirting around and expect her to trust you. Even if you don’t get caught, if you are dishonest in your ways, you definitely won’t have your lady trusting you.<\/p>\n

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Trust can’t be built in a day but it can be lost in a day; that’s what trust means to people. The issue is a very delicate one; and like I said in the previous article on trust, if you have a man that you can trust, value him.<\/p>\n

Shawn<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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