{"id":4970,"date":"2014-06-16T12:19:13","date_gmt":"2014-06-16T11:19:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=4970"},"modified":"2016-07-01T22:32:26","modified_gmt":"2016-07-01T21:32:26","slug":"top-reasons-why-most-guys-are-scared-of-a-serious-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/top-reasons-why-most-guys-are-scared-of-a-serious-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"TOP REASONS WHY MOST GUYS ARE SCARED OF A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP"},"content":{"rendered":"
One thing I’ve noticed about guys is that they get scared when it comes to serious relationships. They might be with a lady they like but when it starts getting serious they might tend to fizzle out into thin air.<\/p>\n
This always gets me thinking, why would a lady want something serious from you and you shy away from her even when you like her? I’m not sure there is a better contradiction than this; it’s alarming, surprising not the least.<\/p>\n
I’m also a victim of this, as a matter of fact this was a typical me in my university days and not just me, even my friends had this issue, and not just them, even their friends had this issue; the cycle keeps going on and on; why are guys scared of a serious relationship?<\/p>\n
I think I’m well suited to write this piece because of my experience from a personal point of view as well as that of my friends and others that I’m aware of.<\/p>\n
I would bring you 6 real reasons why guys are scared of relationships, and I think you should ask any guy out there; if he’s honest enough, he would tell you I’m right.<\/p>\n
1. GUYS SEE IT AS BONDAGE<\/b><\/p>\n
This is one major reason why guys are scared of a serious relationship; they see it as bondage. When you are just having flings with other ladies, you’re a free man, you’re not responsible for anyone, it’s just you and you alone. But when you have a serious affair, it’s more like a cage, you have someone to checkmate your every activity, and you can’t do the things you used to do anymore.<\/p>\n
Come on guys, come off it, that’s a sign of immaturity; you need to grow up.<\/p>\n
2. HEART BREAK<\/b><\/p>\n