Hello folks, it’s time for another Elcrema Sunday Love Special and it’s yet another debatable topic. So many men have kicked out their wives for cheating and just a few have forgiven their wives.<\/p>\n
I’m S.O.Z and I’d be handling this piece with Drama, cheating is always a big case in relationships and marriage and cheating wives have never been a rarity. I’d like your opinion on this issue but first let’s see what Drama has to say.<\/p>\n
Drama<\/b><\/p>\n
Cheating in marriage is a sin, not just against God, but also against humanity because marriage is a sacred union; one between two people who come together and agree to spend the rest of their lives with each other. In other words, two people promise and swear to each other to be there for each other, and remain true to themselves no matter what. Cheating is a violation of this promise and oath; it amounts to total disregard for the oath taken on the altar and the feelings of the other spouse. Now, why should I stick with a person who has shown blatant disregard for my emotions? Absolutely no reason whatsoever. I do not subscribe to the idea that cheating is a result of temptations beyond our control because I believe every human has within himself or herself the ability to tell bad from good. We own ourselves, and can control our emotions.<\/p>\n
I think cheating is clearly a sign from one spouse to the other that they’re tired of the marriage and want to be with someone else (although they may not yet know it). So the best bet against a situation like this is to let the person go, and move on with your life because no matter what happens, once a cheat, always a cheat. And you probably didn’t know this, but nothing can drive a man to an early grave faster than an unhappy home.\u00a0 Even if I already have kids with an infidel wife, I’d still divorce her and let her go, not minding how difficult it could be. Someday, when our kids are fully grown and mature, they’ll understand why I couldn’t allow an unfaithful woman to bring them up.<\/p>\n
I cannot and would never encourage any man to stick with a cheating wife because like I said once a cheat, always a cheat. You may forgive her today with promises of a better behaviour from her, but what’s the guarantee that she’ll change? What’s to stop her from continuing in her immoral ways? Cheating is like any other sin, the moment you indulge; it\u2019s difficult to stop yourself. You forgive her for cheating with James today, tomorrow, it could be with john and it’ll continue like that until you turn a laughing stock amongst your friends and family, and before you know it, you’re driven to an early grave.<\/p>\n
You don’t want this to happen brethren, take charge of your family and life and save yourself from shame. Remember the adage that says, “remove the monkey’s hand from the pot of soup early enough before it turns to that of a human”. A word they say is enough for the wise.<\/p>\n
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Click below to read my own opinion<\/b><\/p>\n
S.O.Z<\/b><\/p>\n
First, I’d say I’m not in support of a wife cheating, cheating is wrong morally and in every other aspect you can think of. There should be no excuse for a wife to cheat, marriage is a serious thing, and it\u2019s a vow between two people to be true to each other.<\/p>\n
But I have this to say, for a woman to cheat then something must have gone wrong somewhere. The man must have as well failed in his duties in one way or the other, and I’m not even talking about sexually, but in some other very important aspects of that relationship. Maybe he stopped showing her care, maybe he stopped showing her love, maybe she has been feeling miserable in that relationship and needed to have some fresh air; and I’m not saying it’s the right thing to do, I’m just saying the husband must have lost it somewhere. Women are easily affected emotionally when they aren’t shown love and care; they all respond, though in different ways, maybe the only way out for some is cheating.<\/p>\n
One thing I’ve noticed is that men always feel like they are the king of the jungle. Men cheat, and I’m referring to married men; they cheat and think it’s okay and expect their wives to be true to them; and the moment he catches her cheating, he gets mad and chases her out of the house. Now I want to get something right, so it’s okay for a man to cheat but not okay when a woman cheats?<\/p>\n
Another thing I’ve noticed is that when a man cheats on his wife and gets caught, he begs for forgiveness, he begs with every emotion and expects to be forgiven but when that same man sees his wife cheat, it’s the end of that marriage; she’s leaving. This really baffles me a lot.<\/p>\n
I’m not saying cheating is right, I’m just on the opinion that for a woman to cheat then the man must have as well failed in his duties and both parties should be blamed. Cheating of cause is wrong but chasing her out might not really be the best option.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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