{"id":36887,"date":"2019-06-19T19:36:10","date_gmt":"2019-06-19T18:36:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=36887"},"modified":"2019-06-19T19:36:11","modified_gmt":"2019-06-19T18:36:11","slug":"keep-the-romance-going","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/keep-the-romance-going\/","title":{"rendered":"Ways to Keep the Romance Going In Your Marriage After Having Children"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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There are two types of married couples. There are\nthe ones who are married but their marriage is all about their children and\nthen you have those married couples who are still madly in love with each other\neven though they have children. It makes you wonder, doesn\u2019t it? It makes you\nwonder how is that couple is still able to have so much love and affection\ntowards each other when you and your spouse are too tired to even hold hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So what are they doing so different than you?\nIt\u2019s called effort and that effort comes from both ends. Both you and your\nspouse have to want to bring the romance back in the relationship\u2026 it can\u2019t\njust be onesided. Now, that\u2019s not to say that you have to neglect showing your\nchildren affection to be able to give some to your spouse, you both just have\nto make that effort to set aside time for yourselves just as much as you do for\nyour children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your marriage has hit a slump and you and your\nspouse need a little TLC, take a look at the ways that you can keep the romance\ngoing in your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Hire a Nanny<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When it comes to\nbringing the romance back into your marriage, the number one culprit that made\nthe romance leave in the first place is your children, the majority of the\ntimes. If you want to bring the romance back in your marriage, the first thing\nyou need to do is set aside alone time for you and your spouse. How do you do\nthat? Hire a nanny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hiring a nanny has\ngiven parents a bad rep in the past. People would say that if you hire a nanny\nfor your kids it meant that you don\u2019t have time for your kids and that is not\nthe case at all. Sometimes you just need a little time to yourselves as a\ncouple and there\u2019s no guilt to feel there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can hire a nanny\nfor as long as you need them, you just have to look up their working hours, and\nonce you hire a nanny you become a household employer<\/a>. You have\ncapabilities to hire them for a few hours while some nannies offer overnight\nservices. So, to get some of that alone time and your parents, friends, or\nin-laws can\u2019t watch them, consider hiring a nanny\u2026 your marriage will thank you\nfor it later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Show PDA As Often As You Can<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When you and your\nspouse first started dating, and even before having kids, you couldn\u2019t keep\nyour hands off of each other, could you? In most cases, yes. But somehow, the\nthrill of your spouse faded away the longer you became parents. You used to\nhold hands in the grocery store and steal kisses from each other in the park\u2026\nwhy did all of that have to go away when your kids came along? Probably because\nyou\u2019re:<\/p>\n\n\n\n