{"id":35962,"date":"2019-03-09T13:01:35","date_gmt":"2019-03-09T12:01:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=35962"},"modified":"2019-04-14T21:20:38","modified_gmt":"2019-04-14T20:20:38","slug":"10-mistakes-men-make-in-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/10-mistakes-men-make-in-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"10 MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"510\" height=\"338\" src=\"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/sad-couple.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-15754\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/sad-couple.jpg 510w, https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/sad-couple-300x198.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 510px) 100vw, 510px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Women aren\u2019t\nthe only ones responsible for keeping a home and it\u2019s wrong for people to say\nthat. It\u2019s the responsibility of both partners to keep a home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I previously wrote about <a href=\"https:\/\/goo.gl\/fiV2YE\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">10 MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE<\/a>, so check it out if you are a woman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/2NSmvWqgePU\" allowfullscreen=\"\"><\/iframe><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are 10\nmistakes men make in marriage<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1. THINKING OF YOUR SATISFACTION ALONE IN THE\nBEDROOM<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most men\nare selfish in the bedroom and never think of their wife\u2019s satisfaction.\nDisregarding the needs of your wife in the bedroom can ruin your marriage.\nHaving a good time in the bedroom with your wife requires a very high level of\ncommunication and such conversations should happen when both partners are calm,\nrelaxed and receptive to ideas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2. RECKLESS SPENDING<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Making big\npurchases without consulting your wife or spending recklessly is another big\nmistake most men make in marriages. Keeping a bank account hidden from your\nwife is a no-no in a marriage. When you cut off your wife from knowing about\nyour finances, you make her feel less loved and connected. Your wife needs you\nto trust her with your heart and your finances. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3. NOT INVOLVING YOURSELF IN CHILD REARING<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most men\nleave child rearing for their wife and believe all they need to do is provide\nfor the family and this is wrong. It is wrong as a husband to take a backseat\nwhen it comes to child rearing. Spend time with your children and play an\nactive role in their lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. NOT TAKING CARE OF YOUR BODY<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most men\nwant their wife to take good care of their body but rarely do that themselves.\nI have seen so many husbands allow themselves to lose their body and many wives\naren\u2019t happy about it. Just as you want your wife to maintain a good body, you\nought to do the same thing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>5. FAILURE TO MAKE FUTURE PLANS<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a\nhusband, you need to give your wife and children security by planning for the\nfuture. You have to plan for the future of the marriage, your finances, the\nchildren etc. Don\u2019t be the husband that lives for the now; make plans for\nretirement, old age, death, when the kids get married etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>6. YOU DON\u2019T LISTEN TO YOUR WIFE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most men\nfail to see their wives as their partner and would rarely listen to her\nopinion. Learn to listen to what she has to say. Don\u2019t assume you know what\nyour wife is going to say or tune her out because you have heard it all before.\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>7. YOU DON\u2019T CONFIDE IN YOUR WIFE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not\nconfiding in their wife is another common mistake most men make in marriages.\nYour wife is supposed to be your gossip partner and the one you confide in. She\nwants to be included in your entire world. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>8. YOU ALLOW FAMILY AND FRIENDS DISRESPECT YOUR\nWIFE<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You have\nfailed as a husband when you allow your family and friends disrespect your\nwife. Anyone that disrespects your wife also disrespects you; it\u2019s as simple as\nthat. Avoiding talking bad about your wife in public so she won\u2019t get\ndisrespected. Your family and friends should only know about positives and not\nthe negatives. You and your wife should sort out the negatives alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>9. YOU REFUSE TO APOLOGISE WHEN YOU ARE WRONG<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Refusing to\napologize when you are wrong is one mistake husbands make in marriages. Many\nmen believe they belittle themselves when they apologize to their wife and this\nis wrong. Just because you are a man is no reason not to apologize when you\nwrong your wife. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>10. YOU COMPARE YOUR WIFE TO OTHER WOMEN<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Comparison\nis dangerous and can destroy your marriage; never compare your wife to other\nwomen. There will always be women around you who have traits and strengths that\nyour wife does not have but do you know the weaknesses these women have? Cherish\nand honour your wife for who she is, not for what she does or doesn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Women aren\u2019t the only ones&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":15754,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[79],"tags":[3321],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35962"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35962"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35962\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36220,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35962\/revisions\/36220"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15754"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35962"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35962"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35962"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}