{"id":35548,"date":"2019-02-02T02:57:34","date_gmt":"2019-02-02T01:57:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=35548"},"modified":"2019-02-02T02:57:41","modified_gmt":"2019-02-02T01:57:41","slug":"3-selfish-things-that-kill-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/3-selfish-things-that-kill-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"3 SELFISH THINGS THAT KILL RELATIONSHIPS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Selfishness and relationships don’t go hand\nin hand, but people bring their selfishness into relationships without knowing.\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s impossible to bring in your selfish\nlifestyle into your relationship and make it succeed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

People tend to be selfish without noticing\nthe negative impact it brings to their relationships. More often than not,\npeople display selfish tendencies without knowing it, and selfishness is a\nnatural part of humans, but it takes discipline to curb what selfishness can\ndo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These are some selfish acts people display\nin their relationships without knowing it:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1.\nALWAYS CLAIMING TO BE RIGHT<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you always claim to be right, it’s a\nsign of selfishness. Learning to look at things from your partner’s angle is a\nsign of selflessness, and would do your relationship a whole lot of good. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.\nALWAYS HAVING THINGS YOUR WAY<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wanting to have things your way is even\nworse than claiming to be right. A relationship is a two-way street; it isn’t a\ncompetition between two people, but is an opportunity for two people to come in\nunity. There’s no victory in having things your way, but when two partners come\ntogether in understanding — that is the victory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3.\nEMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Partners tend to use blackmail as a cheap\nway of getting things from their partners or having what they want in a\nrelationship. Blackmail is never nice, and is a sign that you do not care about\nyour partner’s emotions. By blackmailing your partner, you disrespect his\/her\nemotions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

These three things are signs of\nselfishness, and if you aren’t careful you’d hurt your relationship.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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