{"id":35530,"date":"2019-01-24T02:04:43","date_gmt":"2019-01-24T01:04:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=35530"},"modified":"2019-01-24T02:04:54","modified_gmt":"2019-01-24T01:04:54","slug":"3-questions-to-ask-yourself-after-a-quarrel-with-your-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/3-questions-to-ask-yourself-after-a-quarrel-with-your-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"3 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF AFTER A QUARREL WITH YOUR PARTNER"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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To many, quarrels are part and parcel of a\nrelationship, and many believe it’s inevitable to avoid quarreling with their spouse.\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, quarreling tends to have consequences\non a relationship, and if not handled properly, it could cause the relationship\nto suffer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are some important things that need\nto be done after a quarrel, so as to safeguard that relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

These questions below will help you manage\nquarrels better: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1.\nWAS IT WORTH IT? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quarrels are emotionally draining; it’ll leave\nyou drained physically, mentally and emotionally, and it’ll also leave you unhappy.\nOne thing to do after a quarrel is to ask yourself if it was worth the negative\nenergy after all. You’d be surprised to find out that no quarrel is ever worth\nit. Quarrels are a grievous way of trying to fix things, and it never fixes\nanything. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.\nWAS I SELFISH? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

One thing I’ve come to observe is that\nevery quarrel between couples always has self-centeredness at the root of it.\nWhen people quarrel, they unknowingly project a message of self. When both partners\nwant things their way, it’ll end in a quarrel. When both partners fail to see things\nfrom the other person’s perspective, it’ll lead to a quarrel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

After a quarrel, think things through without\nany bias and you might just see how selfish you were in the process. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3.\nHOW SHOULD I HANDLE THE SITUATION NEXT TIME? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There’s always a better way to do things. There’s\nalways a better way to react, to express yourself, there are always better\nwords to say, there’s always a better way to respond to your partner, and there’s\nalways a better choice to make. If you take these into consideration after a\nquarrel, you’d observe that if things were done better, a quarrel would easily\nhave been avoided and that heated tension wouldn’t have happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don’t let a quarrel go by without learning from\nyour mistake, as this will help in case anything like that should arise again. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you sincerely ask and answer these\nquestions, you’d be surprised at just how much you’d solve the issues that\narise between you and your partner without stress. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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