{"id":34842,"date":"2018-06-19T21:20:25","date_gmt":"2018-06-19T20:20:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=34842"},"modified":"2018-06-19T21:20:25","modified_gmt":"2018-06-19T20:20:25","slug":"ladies-only-10-ways-to-get-your-crush-to-fall-for-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/ladies-only-10-ways-to-get-your-crush-to-fall-for-you\/","title":{"rendered":"LADIES ONLY: 10 WAYS TO GET YOUR CRUSH TO FALL FOR YOU"},"content":{"rendered":"

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There have been a lot of posts about subjects like this one, but there’s a difference between this and them, and it’s simple \u2013 you can relate to, and actually do the things listed here. If you’ve been in a situation where you see your crush all the time, and you’re not sure how to get them to understand how you feel, this post will help you with that.<\/p>\n

So let’s dive in! How do you get him to like you?<\/p>\n

TELL HIM<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m a big advocate for expressing your feelings. Plus, this is the easiest way for someone to understand how you feel. If you tell him of your interest in him, there\u2019s no way he can misinterpret that. You like him, and you told him you like him. Now, he knows exactly how you feel so he either accepts it or not.<\/p>\n

BE APPROACHABLE<\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s okay to play the mystery card, but why, really? It sounds exhausting and you wait for the guy to approach you.<\/p>\n

Well, why not just open yourself and be more approachable. If you show a guy that you\u2019re friendly and communicative, interested in talking to them, does it show you like them? Not necessarily, but it\u2019s a good first step.<\/p>\n

START A CONVERSATION <\/strong><\/p>\n

When you see him eating lunch alone or waiting in line for the elevator, be the first one to start a conversation.<\/p>\n

Usually, men assume they should be the one to make the first move in everything, but why not mix it up a bit? This shows him you\u2019re interested in talking to him and allows him to make the first move the next time he sees you. Show him that you\u2019re interested.<\/p>\n

MAKE EYE CONTACT<\/strong><\/p>\n

When we like someone, we stare at them. So why not look at them while they\u2019re looking at you? Eye contact is one of the major signs we all watch out for when trying to see if someone is into us or not. If someone avoids eye contact with you, they\u2019re not interested in you. However, if they stare at you while you look at them, it\u2019s a clear sign that you are into each other. So, if you want him to know that you like him, look at him keenly.<\/p>\n

SMILE<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know this may seem elementary, but you would never approach a guy who\u2019s always frowning and looking angry. So, why would a guy assume you\u2019re interested in him if you look like that?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time to put a smile on that face because he won\u2019t know you\u2019re interested in him if you don\u2019t look at him and smile. But, of course, don\u2019t force it. If you don\u2019t feel like smiling, then don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

ASK HIM OUT<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now, you may be freaking out at this point, but don\u2019t. When it comes to figuring out how to let a guy know you\u2019re interested in him, this is definitely a strong first move, but that doesn\u2019t make it bad. Why not ask him out? This clearly shows him you\u2019re interested in getting to know him more. So, he probably will be more relaxed knowing you like him. And the first date jitters will simply vanish.<\/p>\n

TEXT HIM<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know people say that he needs to text you first and that you need to wait a couple of hours to reply, but I don’t agree.<\/p>\n

If you like him, just text him. Who cares about who texted who first? The point is that you\u2019re interested in him, so he should know that. Send him a text and see if he replies. Who knows where it\u2019ll lead you.<\/p>\n

DO NOT FRIEND-ZONE YOURSELF<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not friends. Let\u2019s just make this very clear. You don\u2019t even want to be his friend; you want something more, right? So, don\u2019t act like his friend in order to somehow weasel yourself into a relationship or dating position. You need to make it obvious that you\u2019re interested in him more than just a friend. That way, neither of you waste your time.<\/p>\n

DON’T PLAY GAMES<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know people love playing games. You know the whole \u201chot and cold\u201d thing. Well, it\u2019s boring, frankly. If you\u2019re genuinely interested in him then you should be honest about how you feel. It\u2019s easier for you in the long run as well. Say what you want and mean what you say.<\/p>\n

FLIRT<\/strong><\/p>\n

You most likely flirt with him naturally because you want to be intimate with him. Flirting is the first step to intimacy. You basically build up a kind of tension by this. This is a clear sign men go by when figuring out if someone likes them. They see if this person flirts with him. If not, they most likely are unsure of where your intentions lie.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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