{"id":32622,"date":"2017-03-03T10:14:16","date_gmt":"2017-03-03T09:14:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=32622"},"modified":"2017-03-03T10:14:16","modified_gmt":"2017-03-03T09:14:16","slug":"6-ways-to-handle-rumours-about-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/6-ways-to-handle-rumours-about-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"6 WAYS TO HANDLE RUMOURS ABOUT YOURSELF"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/11.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-12663\" src=\"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/11.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"399\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/11.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/11-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>There are rumour mongers everywhere, and it&#8217;s common to have fallen into the trap of rumour mongers.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s very important to know how to handle rumours about yourself, because if you don&#8217;t, those rumours could get the better of you and affect you negatively.<\/p>\n<p>These are six things you should do when you hear a rumour about yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. BE CONFIDENT<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Being confident when things which are untrue are being said about you is a very important way to handle rumours. When you are confident, you give the rumour-plotters something else to think about.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. NEVER SHOW FRUSTRATION<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>People plotting rumours against you expect you to show frustration and lose your cool. You play into their traps when you do this. So, never get frustrated because of rumours; see rumours as what it really is &#8212; lies.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. COMMUNICATE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you hear something untrue about you, communicate with the people who matter to you and people in higher authority, like your boss if possible.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. CLARIFY THE SITUATION<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Present facts to clarify the situation.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. DON&#8217;T TRY TOO HARD <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t try too hard to impress anyone. When you become desperate to clear the rumours, people might actually believe the rumours are true.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. BE POSITIVE <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Remain positive no matter the situation, keep a smiling face and never lose your joy because of news that are untrue.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It might seem difficult to do all these, but it&#8217;s way better to handle rumours this way than to get frustrated.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Jake <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are rumour mongers everywhere,&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":12663,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[34],"tags":[3116],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32622"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32622"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32622\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":32625,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32622\/revisions\/32625"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12663"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32622"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32622"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32622"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}