{"id":30292,"date":"2016-10-07T11:11:07","date_gmt":"2016-10-07T10:11:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=30292"},"modified":"2016-10-07T11:11:07","modified_gmt":"2016-10-07T10:11:07","slug":"9-habits-you-should-let-go-of-before-getting-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/9-habits-you-should-let-go-of-before-getting-married\/","title":{"rendered":"9 HABITS YOU SHOULD LET GO OF BEFORE GETTING MARRIED"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Marriage is a bigger deal than relationships, and while you can jump in and out of a relationship, it isn’t so with marriage.<\/p>\n

People treat their marriage like it’s a mere relationship, and take all their garbage into the marriage, not knowing that it would affect the marriage terribly.<\/p>\n

Certain habits you take into your marriage would only cause it to become toxic.<\/p>\n

These are some of those habits:<\/p>\n

1. COMPARISONS <\/strong><\/p>\n

If you’re the kind who would always compare your partner\/relationship with another, you need to let go of such a habit before getting married.<\/p>\n

Comparisons bring a lot of negative seeds along with it, and if you bring it to your home, you’d never enjoy that marriage.<\/p>\n

2. CONSTANT COMPLAINING<\/strong><\/p>\n

Discontentment, nagging, complaining all show one thing — lack of appreciation. You must learn to appreciate your partner and show your partner support rather than complain about everything. Constant complaining will only wreck your home.<\/p>\n

3. ANGER <\/strong><\/p>\n

Anger is another bad habit that you shouldn’t take into your marriage. When you are angry, you aren’t in control of your emotions and you’d tend to say or do things that you wouldn’t ordinarily do.<\/p>\n

You must learn to keep your emotions in check if you want a peaceful marriage.<\/p>\n

4. SELF-CENTREDNESS<\/strong><\/p>\n

Selfishness is another habit you must let go of before getting married. You must learn to think of your partner as well. and take certain decisions irrespective of what you want and how you want it.<\/p>\n

5. EGO<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cut off unnecessary ego and pride; if there’s one person you shouldn’t show it to, it’s your spouse.<\/p>\n

How can you have a healthy relationship with your partner when you are egotistical?<\/p>\n

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6. EXTRAVAGANCE<\/strong><\/p>\n

Learn to look within and spend within your means. Cut off extravagant lifestyle and do that which you can afford. Your financial health is an important part of getting married, so you must learn to manage your finances.<\/p>\n

7. JEALOUSY<\/strong><\/p>\n

Unnecessary feelings of jealousy will make you and your partner have too many conflicts. You must learn to cut off jealousy from your life if you want your relationship to move smoothly.<\/p>\n

8. DISHONESTY<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lies, deceit and every form of dishonesty should not be found in you. Try to live a life worthy of trust; you ought to be someone your partner can trust.<\/p>\n

9. FLIRTATIOUS RELATIONSHIPS<\/strong><\/p>\n

You must avoid flirting with other men\/women when you’ve found your life partner. There are things you’d do when you’re single that you shouldn’t do when you are married. Anything that would instigate jealousy, distrust and conflicts should be avoided.<\/p>\n

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Perfection might seem impossible to attain, but then, it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be a better version of yourself and cut off those habits you know would ruin your marriage.<\/p>\n

Shawn <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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