{"id":30156,"date":"2016-09-29T10:32:00","date_gmt":"2016-09-29T09:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=30156"},"modified":"2016-09-29T10:32:49","modified_gmt":"2016-09-29T09:32:49","slug":"11-ways-you-ruin-your-good-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/11-ways-you-ruin-your-good-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"11 WAYS YOU RUIN YOUR GOOD RELATIONSHIP"},"content":{"rendered":"

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I’ve seen many beautiful relationships and even marriages go bad. It isn’t that the couples didn’t love themselves in the first place, but one or both partners put up certain habits that made the relationship toxic.<\/p>\n

These are some of the ways you ruin your beautiful relationship.<\/p>\n

1. YOU ARE TOO SERIOUS <\/strong><\/p>\n

You ruin your relationship when you get angry too easily, get slighted by little things, you can’t take a joke and you fail to build happy moments with your partner.<\/p>\n

If you are this kind of partner, you’d gradually ruin the beautiful relationship you have.<\/p>\n

2. YOU START TAKING YOUR PARTNER FOR GRANTED <\/strong><\/p>\n

This is a major reason why beautiful relationships die; when you become so used to your partner’s love, you could start taking them for granted and nonchalance could as well step in.<\/p>\n

3. YOU NEGLECT YOUR OWN APPEARANCE <\/strong><\/p>\n

It’s important you maintain the attraction ongoing in your relationship. You make your partner attracted to you more when you take care of your appearance, but when you neglect your appearance, the attraction could fade gradually.<\/p>\n

4. YOU PUT OTHER PEOPLE AHEAD OF YOUR PARTNER <\/strong><\/p>\n

You bring so many negative tendencies to your relationship when you put other people ahead of your partner; jealousy, competition, negative thoughts and insecurities, to name a few.<\/p>\n

5. INSECURITIES <\/strong><\/p>\n

If you are insecure about yourself, you make it harder for someone to love you and have a beautiful relationship with you. Even when they do, your insecurities would either push them away or create unnecessary problems.<\/p>\n

6. YOU FOCUS ON THE NEGATIVE <\/strong><\/p>\n

When your partner does 7 good things and 1 or 2 not-so-good things, you ought to have that forgiving nature or let things slide (that’s if it is something trivial). However, when you focus on those negative things your partner always does and fail to appreciate the right things your partner do, you’ll bring unhappiness and unrest to the relationship.<\/p>\n

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7. YOU FIND IT HARD TO APOLOGISE\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

Saying sorry is probably the easiest thing to tell your partner, but couples find it the hardest. When you fail to apologise for something wrong, you bring harm to your relationship.<\/p>\n

8. YOU BECOME SELF-CENTRED <\/strong><\/p>\n

Self-centredness is another major way people ruin their relationship. When you always put yourself ahead of your partner, your relationship will definitely get ruined. No relationship can survive when selfishness is present.<\/p>\n

9. YOU FORGET TO SHOW YOUR PARTNER HOW MUCH YOU CARE<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is another silent relationship killer. When you forget to show your partner how much you care, you gradually weaken the love, and your relationship will turn sour as time goes on.<\/p>\n

10. YOU PILE UP NEGATIVE EMOTIONS\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

Grudges, malice, bitterness, contempt, being unforgiving and those other negative emotions wouldn’t help your relationship in any way; in anything, they will cause a divide between you and your partner.<\/p>\n

11. YOU’RE TOO CRITICAL <\/strong><\/p>\n

This is definitely another one many are guilty of. Those who always criticise their partners fail to understand that they are not only causing a divide, but planting other negative seeds in the relationship.<\/p>\n

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People have beautiful relationships, but they tend to ruin it in these 11 ways.<\/p>\n

Shawn <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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