{"id":28911,"date":"2016-07-22T13:16:19","date_gmt":"2016-07-22T12:16:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=28911"},"modified":"2016-07-22T13:16:19","modified_gmt":"2016-07-22T12:16:19","slug":"8-ways-to-keep-the-romance-alive-even-after-having-a-baby","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/8-ways-to-keep-the-romance-alive-even-after-having-a-baby\/","title":{"rendered":"8 WAYS TO KEEP THE ROMANCE ALIVE EVEN AFTER HAVING A BABY"},"content":{"rendered":"

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In many homes, the romance tends to die when kids start coming; but it shouldn’t be so. Kids should be a blessing to the home and not divide couples apart.<\/p>\n

Both partners are responsible for keeping the romance alive even after the babies start coming. These tips below would help.<\/p>\n

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1. NO ONE SHOULD BE CHEATED<\/strong><\/p>\n

To keep the romance alive, both partners have to work and not leave the other to do everything. With babies and kids come a lot of responsibilities, and when all the chores are being left for one partner, that partner would start feeling cheated.<\/p>\n

It usually starts with the feeling of being cheated; this could create a divide between both partners and in turn kill the romance.<\/p>\n

2. DO THINGS TOGETHER<\/strong><\/p>\n

Doing things together is a good way to keep the romance alive. Togetherness would make you and your partner fond of each other, and that’s all it takes to keep the romance alive.<\/p>\n

3. PRIORITIZE DATE NIGHTS<\/strong><\/p>\n

Date nights should never be joked with; couples who take date nights seriously tend to have a better marriage. Having regular date nights would keep the fire burning and make you and your partner fond of each other and more in love with each other.<\/p>\n

4.\u00a0MAKE TIME FOR SEX\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sex is still important; when your sex life starts to suffer, your romance would gradually become affected. With babies coming in, it’s so easy to forget about sex; but this isn’t healthy. Still create time for sex, and watch your romance come alive.<\/p>\n

5. SPOIL EACH OTHER<\/strong><\/p>\n

When couples start having kids, they tend to spoil their kids and shower them with love and affection, and then forget to do so for each other. That’s totally wrong.<\/p>\n

Spoil each other with gifts and treats; shower each other with love and affection. Never joke with this tip; things like this would remind you why you fell in love with each other.<\/p>\n

6. BE A DAD\/MUM AND A HUSBAND\/WIFE<\/strong><\/p>\n

You have a role as a parent and you also have a role to play as spouses; don’t play your role as a parent and forget to play your role as a husband\/wife.<\/p>\n

7. FLIRT WITH EACH OTHER<\/strong><\/p>\n

Flirting isn’t for unmarried couples alone; don’t forget to flirt with each other, look sexy for each other and entice each other. Maintaining that desire even after having kids would go a long way in keeping the romance alive.<\/p>\n

8. BE ON THE SAME PARENTING PAGE<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don’t see each other as a competition; it’s things like these that cause troubles between couples, and this would eventually kill the romance.<\/p>\n

Try to be on the same parenting page, work as a team, understand each other and iron out differences on time \u2014 and watch your romance spike.<\/p>\n

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It’s important to keep the romance alive because once it dies, so many other things would suffer. The success of a home depends on this; plus your kids are also watching; it would be easier for them to love each other when the parents love each other.<\/p>\n

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