{"id":28784,"date":"2016-07-17T17:51:21","date_gmt":"2016-07-17T16:51:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=28784"},"modified":"2016-12-23T20:24:31","modified_gmt":"2016-12-23T19:24:31","slug":"is-snooping-on-your-partners-phone-really-a-sign-of-distrust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/is-snooping-on-your-partners-phone-really-a-sign-of-distrust\/","title":{"rendered":"IS SNOOPING ON YOUR PARTNER’S PHONE REALLY A SIGN OF DISTRUST??"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Today’s topic for discussion in our Sunday Love Special forum is snooping. Many partner’s tend to snoop on their partner’s phone, irrespective of whether the partner is trustworthy or not. To some, it’s a normal thing to do when you are in a relationship or even married, and to many it’s quite important to check on your partner from time to time.<\/p>\n

Drama and Shawn would share what they really feel about this common relationship scenario — snooping.<\/p>\n

Drama<\/strong><\/p>\n

Absolutely! It is obvious, isn’t it? If I have complete trust in you, why would I go behind your back to seek reassurance? The only reason anyone would want to snoop on their partner’s phone is because they don’t have total faith in them. It is because they may have observed something fishy about their partner’s behavior, and so, want to know what the reality truly is.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t have distrust in your partner, you wouldn’t snoop on their phones. But of course, it’s not an abnormal behavior in humans, we are built that way. No matter how much you love a person, there’ll come a time when you have the tiniest doubt about their feelings towards you. Lots of people have been in that position at least, once in their lifetime.<\/p>\n

Click below to read Shawn’s opinion<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Shawn <\/strong><\/p>\n

What’s distrust? It’s simply not having enough trust for someone. If brought into a relationship, it’s simply not having enough trust for your partner, or trusting that your partner wouldn’t be faithful enough in certain circumstances, ranging from fidelity to finance.<\/p>\n

People snoop for different reasons, and there’s hardly a positive reason for snooping; it’s either to check your partner’s ways with the opposite sex, to check what’s going on in his\/her life, to check what he\/she is hiding from you, to check if there is anything you should know that you don’t, or just your inquisitiveness at work.<\/p>\n

If you totally believe everything your partner says, you wouldn’t have to snoop on his\/her phone. If you feel your partner never hides a thing from you, you wouldn’t have to snoop. Sometimes, the snoopy partner snoops not just because they believe that their partner is cheating or hiding anything from them, they snoop because they have trust issues. Some people really find it hard to trust, and even if there is no reason for them to distrust their partner, they still distrust them.<\/p>\n

When a partner snoops, it shows that something isn’t really right; either you have a partner that isn’t trustworthy or you have trust issues. But in reality, snooping is actually a sign of distrust.<\/p>\n

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Do you go through your partner\u2019s phone? Do you think it\u2019s a sign of distrust?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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