{"id":28327,"date":"2016-07-01T13:50:43","date_gmt":"2016-07-01T12:50:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=28327"},"modified":"2017-07-07T14:48:08","modified_gmt":"2017-07-07T13:48:08","slug":"8-tips-to-quit-nagging","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/8-tips-to-quit-nagging\/","title":{"rendered":"8 TIPS TO QUIT NAGGING"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"nagging<\/a><\/p>\n

Nagging is constant complaining and criticising one’s character and behaviour. Whether right or wrong, nagging is an unhealthy character and one that would spoil any relationship.<\/p>\n

There are different levels of nagging; incessant nagging is the most extreme, and this could drive your partner crazy.<\/p>\n

Do you want to know the signs you are a nagging partner? Read these tips here<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Now, let’s learn how to quit being a nag.<\/p>\n

1. KILL THE ANGER AND IRRITATION<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nagging is usually as a result of anger and irritation. When you get easily angry and irritated with your partner, you would nag easily. Nagging comes as a result of being unable to control your irritation and anger towards your partner. If you can learn to be a tolerable partner, then you would learn to quit nagging.<\/p>\n

2. LEARN TO DO IT YOURSELF<\/strong><\/p>\n

If your partner won’t do it, try to do it yourself; this might not make you happy, but it would keep you from nagging.<\/p>\n

3. LOOK FOR BETTER WAYS TO COMMUNICATE\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Look for more effective ways to communicate with your partner. Rather than constantly saying it, just say it once. Whether you feel you are right about it, say it once.<\/p>\n

Also, understand your partner’s communication pattern; everyone has a way of communicating that would make them do things they wouldn’t ordinarily do.<\/p>\n

4. BE YOUR SWEET SELF<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you want your partner to do something, be your sweet self, rather than nag about it. Learn to say “please”, “thank you” and be more romantic.<\/p>\n

5. SETTLE FOR A PARTIAL VICTORY<\/strong><\/p>\n

You can’t have it your way all the time; if your partner would do it but not the way you feel it should be done, settle for it that way.<\/p>\n

6. IT MUSTN’T BE DONE AT YOUR OWN TIME\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Learn to let your partner do some things at their own time and pace. Most times, a lot of nagging partners want things done their way and their time, and this isn’t really right.<\/p>\n

7. APPRECIATE IMPROVEMENTS<\/strong><\/p>\n

If your partner makes a little improvement regarding a situation, learn to appreciate it. When you appreciate your partner for an improvement, they would go the extra mile.<\/p>\n

8. ASSIGN CHORES BASED ON PERSONAL PREFERENCES<\/strong><\/p>\n

If your partner prefers to do the dishes than arrange the bedroom, let them do the dishes, while you arrange the bedroom.<\/p>\n

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Being a nagging partner wouldn’t help solve anything; it would even make your relationship with your partner tense.<\/p>\n

ViV<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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