<\/a><\/p>\nIn many families, tension usually exists between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law. Studies show that the mother-in-law, daughter-in-law relationship is the trickiest.<\/p>\n
One major cause of\u00a0 the unhealthy rivalry between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law is that they both don’t realise they love the same person and in turn treat each other as the enemy. I mean, every mother loves her son and every good wife loves her husband, so why can’t they unite their love for the same person rather than fight against each other?<\/p>\n
According to a study of hundreds of families over two decades, more than 60 per cent of women admitted the relationship with their female in-law caused them long-term unhappiness and stress. This isn’t good, so it’s time to create a solution.<\/p>\n
These tips would better every mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems.<\/p>\n
1. THEY SHOULD SEE LOVE AS A UNIFYING FACTOR AND NOT A RIVALRY<\/strong><\/p>\nThey shouldn’t see each other as the enemy but rather understand that they share a common love for the same person. Let love be a unifying factor for both parties and not cause a rivalry.<\/p>\n
2. THEY SHOULD HAVE RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER<\/strong><\/p>\nWhen respect exists, it fosters better relations between people. The truth is most mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law don’t respect each other enough; many decisions they make signify that there is a lack of respect between them.<\/p>\n
3. THEY SHOULD STOP USING THEIR INFLUENCE AGAINST EACH OTHER<\/strong><\/p>\nAnother major cause of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law drama is that they both try to use their influence against the other and this is totally wrong.<\/p>\n
They should both use their influence on the man for better purposes rather than fight against each other.<\/p>\n
4. STOP BEING OVERPROTECTIVE<\/strong><\/p>\nMost mothers-in-law are overprotective and many wives too share this nature. You shouldn’t try to separate a man from his wife, just as you shouldn’t try to separate a mother from her son; this overprotective nature would only ruin the marriage.<\/p>\n
5. THE MAN SHOULDN’T TAKE SIDES<\/strong><\/p>\nTaking sides would only worsen the situation, and a lot of men tilt towards the side of their mothers leaving their wives unhappy and defenceless.<\/p>\n
These are two people who matter to you, so it shouldn’t be about taking sides but making the right decisions to create peace in your family.<\/p>\n
6. THE MAN SHOULD KNOW WHEN TO DRAW THE LINE<\/strong><\/p>\nThe man should know when to draw the line if anyone overstep boundaries, knowing that it would cause further friction. When both the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law know their place, it would be easy for them to live amicably.<\/p>\n
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Mother-in-law\/daughter-in-law drama has ruined a lot of marriages, but with these tips you can create a healthy relationship between them and make your family peaceful.<\/p>\n
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