{"id":25651,"date":"2016-04-23T11:46:43","date_gmt":"2016-04-23T10:46:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=25651"},"modified":"2016-04-23T11:46:43","modified_gmt":"2016-04-23T10:46:43","slug":"6-decisions-you-should-be-ready-to-make-when-you-are-dating-a-man-who-toys-with-your-emotions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/6-decisions-you-should-be-ready-to-make-when-you-are-dating-a-man-who-toys-with-your-emotions\/","title":{"rendered":"6 DECISIONS YOU SHOULD BE READY TO MAKE WHEN YOU ARE DATING A MAN WHO TOYS WITH YOUR EMOTIONS"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"RELATIONSHIP<\/a><\/p>\n

Not every man who comes to you for a relationship actually wants a real relationship with you; some seek companionship, some seek fun and excitement, some seek sexual intimacy and some might want to know how it would feel to be with you. Some might like you at first and lose it after a while.<\/p>\n

When in such a relationship where you are being toyed with, your emotions are being played with and your man takes you for granted, these are some of the decisions you should ready to make.<\/p>\n

1. STOP TRYING TO PLEASE HIM <\/b><\/p>\n

Trying to win him over or trying to please him might be a waste of time. If he has toyed with your emotions for months and even years then he’s passing a message but you aren’t listening. Don’t kill yourself for a man who would only take your feelings and emotions for granted. Recognise what he’s doing to you, recognise that he doesn’t value you and then stop trying to save him; you never had him in the first place.<\/b><\/p>\n

2. BE READY TO LEAVE THAT RELATIONSHIP <\/b><\/p>\n

This is another important step you should be willing to make. After you’ve noticed that he’s taking your feelings and emotions for granted and that he’s toying with them, you should be ready and willing to leave that relationship; that relationship is toxic and it isn’t meant for you.<\/p>\n

3. HEAL <\/b><\/p>\n

If you have left the relationship, let your heart heal; don’t carry grudges (it wouldn’t help), don’t keep thinking about it; just let your heart be free from everything and heal completely.<\/p>\n

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\"RELATIONSHIP<\/a><\/p>\n

4. DON’T SEEK REVENGE <\/b><\/p>\n

This is where most ladies get it wrong; seeking revenge might be fun but it only means you haven’t healed, it means you are still looking back at that relationship, it means you are still bound to the relationship and it means your heart isn’t free.<\/p>\n

Thinking of ways to hurt him back would only hurt you in the process; your heart would be filled with hate and your emotions would be hurt in the process.<\/p>\n

5. LIVE YOUR LIFE <\/b><\/p>\n

Live your life, do things that you love, enjoy every minute of the day, focus on the things that are going on for you and the beautiful life you have. Don’t give someone who isn’t worth it the chance to kill your happiness.<\/p>\n

6. THE FUTURE <\/b><\/p>\n

Your relationship with him is now in the past, let it remain there. You can’t change your past, but you can change your future. Be strong, let go of the past and work for the future. Work on yourself, work on your self-esteem and confidence and make yourself a better person.<\/p>\n

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Don’t let one man ruin your world; make your world deeper and more beautiful than that.<\/p>\n

ViV\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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