<\/a><\/p>\nI’ve seen great relationships get ruined, and it isn’t the big things that ruin it — it’s those little things. Those little things you feel don’t matter actually matters the most.<\/p>\n
Couples that have been deemed perfect by others have seen their relationships get sour, not really for a lack of love but because they let the little things in the way of the relationship.<\/p>\n
Little things kill relationships, and these are some of them.<\/p>\n
1. Blame games<\/p>\n
2. Not taking responsibility for your actions.<\/p>\n
3. Being sarcastic when your partner is serious.<\/p>\n
4. Laughing at your partner’s insecurity instead of assisting.<\/p>\n
5. Turning a blind eye to your partner’s plight.<\/p>\n
6. Sweeping off unresolved matters.<\/p>\n
7. Not completely forgiving your partner.<\/p>\n
8. Not communicating with your partner.<\/p>\n
9. Hiding how you really feel.<\/p>\n
10. Taking things for granted.<\/p>\n
11. Taking your partner for granted.<\/p>\n
12. Thinking of yourself alone.<\/p>\n
13. Seeking only your happiness.<\/p>\n
14. Giving your partner the silent treatment.<\/p>\n
15. Continually bringing up past events.<\/p>\n
16. Avoiding to respond to your partner’s body language.<\/p>\n
17. Being insensitive to your partner’s emotional needs.<\/p>\n
18. Arguing in public.<\/p>\n
19. Calling each other names.<\/p>\n
20. Not saying “sorry” and “thank you”.<\/p>\n
21. Saying “sorry” and “thank you” without really meaning it.<\/p>\n
22. Nonchalance<\/p>\n
23. Always forgetting important dates.<\/p>\n
24. Expecting from your partner and doing nothing in return.<\/p>\n
25. Keeping secrets, lying and being dishonest.<\/p>\n
26. Flirting with the opposite sex, especially in front of your partner.<\/p>\n
27. Comparing your partner or relationship to others.<\/p>\n
28. Undervaluing your partner’s efforts in the relationship.<\/p>\n
29. Being arrogant.<\/p>\n
30. Failing to apologise when you are wrong.<\/p>\n
31. Feeling superior to your partner or your partner’s family.<\/p>\n
32. Constantly arguing about trivial things.<\/p>\n
33. Low self-esteem<\/p>\n
34. Not acknowledging your partner’s progress, strengths, efforts and creativity.<\/p>\n
35. Jealousy<\/p>\n
36. Not giving each other space when needed.<\/p>\n
37. Unnecessary drama and creating a scenario for every little thing that happens.<\/p>\n
38. Keeping scores and holding grudges.<\/p>\n
39. Getting angry easily.<\/p>\n
40. Not creating time for each other.<\/p>\n
41. Not showing you love and care about each other.<\/p>\n
42. Pretending to listen when you aren’t really listening.<\/p>\n
43. Using your mobile phone during important moments with your partner.<\/p>\n
44. Not complimenting each other enough.<\/p>\n
45. Wanting to have your way at all times.<\/p>\n
46. Getting easily irritated.<\/p>\n
47. Having too much expectations.<\/p>\n
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