{"id":22545,"date":"2016-01-10T16:28:09","date_gmt":"2016-01-10T15:28:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=22545"},"modified":"2016-01-10T16:28:09","modified_gmt":"2016-01-10T15:28:09","slug":"is-it-okay-to-marry-a-partner-you-have-frequent-misunderstanding-with","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/is-it-okay-to-marry-a-partner-you-have-frequent-misunderstanding-with\/","title":{"rendered":"IS IT OKAY TO MARRY A PARTNER YOU HAVE FREQUENT MISUNDERSTANDING WITH?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Couple-arguing\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Hello everyone and welcome to another edition of the El Crema Sunday Love Special.<\/p>\n

It’s actually the first Sunday Love Special of the New Year, 2016.<\/p>\n

Today’s topic is an issue that’s faced regularly in relationships and marriages. People go on to marry someone even though they had so many disagreements while dating. Would you marry a partner even though you always have frequent fights and quarrels with them?<\/p>\n

Drama and Shawn would share their opinions on this subject.<\/p>\n

Drama<\/b><\/p>\n

It’s easy to quickly say ‘no’ to this question, but then if you give it some more thought, you’ll see the need to have someone who is a little more stubborn than you are as a spouse. I don’t think I’d like to marry a woman who agrees to everything I say without putting up a fight every now and then, because that would mean marrying a robotic \/ passive person. I want my wife to be confident and not be afraid to assert her own ideas and opinions on me — she’s human too.<\/p>\n

We may disagree and fight on some of the opinions we vent, but then it’s very normal for that to happen because we are two different people coming from different backgrounds. There are no real relationships and marriages without these fights, they’re bound to happen, unless you’re not being truthful to yourselves. You’ll fight and disagree, but when you realize that the other person may be right after all, you’ll come to your senses, and make up with them. Disagreeing with your potential spouse on occasions doesn’t mean that you cannot marry them because you’re not compatible. Most couples aren’t compatible from the onset, they just work it out and adapt to the other person’s lifestyle. So, I definitely can marry a woman with whom I fight often because I think she’s the ideal woman; she\u2019s strong, she’s confident, and she’s not afraid to speak her mind. You will even learn from such a person because they’ll bring up new ideas and opinions often. Any person who agrees to your every opinion is just pretending and not being true to themselves. I cannot deal with a passive partner.<\/p>\n

Click below to read Shawn\u2019s opinion \u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Couple-arguing\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Shawn <\/b><\/p>\n

From a personal point of view, I wouldn’t say it’s okay to marry a partner that you always have misunderstanding with. For me, going on to marry someone you always have misunderstanding with beats the purpose of relationship and dating.<\/p>\n

Being in a relationship with someone offers you both the chance to know each other better and build an understanding to a very reasonable extent. It’s after this you can then decide if marriage with that person would actually be worth it.<\/p>\n

If your relationship with your partner was full of hiccups, fights, quarrels and misunderstanding then marriage with that person would be even worse. People don’t get the fact that marriage is a bigger deal than relationships, and a lot of people have this false belief that marriage would solve all the problems that the relationship had; ‘it would get better when we get married’ they usually say — but marriage doesn’t solve problems, people solve problems. Relationships need work and commitment to be better, but marriage needs even more.<\/p>\n

It’s better to build that understanding in the course of relationship than hoping things would sort itself when you are married.<\/p>\n

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That’s our take on today’s edition of our biweekly El Crema Sunday Love Special, hope you found this interesting and as well insightful? We wish you all a wonderful new year.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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