{"id":15264,"date":"2015-06-17T06:39:17","date_gmt":"2015-06-17T05:39:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=15264"},"modified":"2019-02-14T10:53:26","modified_gmt":"2019-02-14T09:53:26","slug":"4-reasons-you-shouldnt-envy-your-friends-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/4-reasons-you-shouldnt-envy-your-friends-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"4 REASONS YOU SHOULDN’T ENVY YOUR FRIEND’S RELATIONSHIP"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Envy\"<\/a><\/p>\n

It’s not an uncommon event to see a guy or lady envy a seemingly sweet relationship that a friend has. When you see someone with an awesome relationship and you feel like yours isn’t half as good as theirs, it’s normal to be jealous and feel like you ought to have that kind of relationship; but it really shouldn’t be so, you never know how a shoe feels till you wear it.<\/p>\n

There are many reasons you shouldn’t really envy a friend’s relationship, and I’d share.<\/p>\n

1. FAILED RELATIONSHIPS<\/b><\/p>\n

First, your friend’s relationship might be awesome, but you never can tell how many failed relationships that person might have passed through to finally get that relationship that feels like home. In other words, they might have passed through even worse things than you relationship-wise and finally found a home in their relationship. So all you need do is hope for or find someone who’s better suited to you.<\/p>\n

2. THE WORK THEY PUT IN <\/b><\/p>\n

Sometimes people have great relationship partners but don’t really appreciate their partner or put in more effort for the success of their relationship. Every successful relationship has a tale of dedication, commitment and compromise. If you don’t add such values to your relationship, you shouldn’t expect any better \u2013 the dedication and commitment they put in their relationship could be the secret of the relationship\u2019s success; rather than envy, put in such level of commitment too.<\/p>\n

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3. IT MIGHT NOT REALLY BE WHAT YOU THINK <\/b><\/p>\n

The grass isn’t always greener on the other side; you might feel your friend is having an awesome relationship, but deep within, the skeletons in their closet might be worse than you could ever imagine. So instead of envying that relationship, it’s better you push for a better relationship with your partner.<\/p>\n

4. ENVY NEVER HELPS <\/b><\/p>\n

Also, envy is never a good trait; envy would do worse things than good to your relationship. Envy could turn you to a nagging partner, you would be competitive and full of comparisons, it could turn you to a selfish and unappreciative partner \u2014 it would only make your relationship worse.<\/p>\n

Rather than envy, be full of praise for your friend\u2019s relationship, and always have that zeal to be a better relationship partner, and always a better relationship partner.<\/p>\n

Shawn \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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