{"id":14808,"date":"2015-05-03T19:43:15","date_gmt":"2015-05-03T18:43:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=14808"},"modified":"2015-05-03T19:43:15","modified_gmt":"2015-05-03T18:43:15","slug":"are-women-only-interested-in-an-already-made-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/are-women-only-interested-in-an-already-made-man\/","title":{"rendered":"ARE WOMEN ONLY INTERESTED IN AN ALREADY MADE MAN?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Hello everyone, welcome to another edition of Elcrema Sunday Love Special. Today\u2019s topic is an interesting one and we hope you would love it.<\/p>\n

There has been this age long debate on whether women are only interested in men that are already made \u2013 that are financially secure.<\/p>\n

While most women tend to shrug off such talks, a lot of men maintain that most women only pick interest in men who are financially buoyant rather than also help in the development of the man.<\/p>\n

What do you think? Do you think the size of a man\u2019s pocket is a major determinant in whether he would have the ladies coming? Drama and ViV would share their opinions on this one.<\/p>\n

Drama <\/b><\/p>\n

On a first thought, i may be tempted to say no— because obviously not every living woman on earth today has set financial security as the primary condition on which she might consider dating any man, but on a second thought, i want to say a big ‘yes’ to the question. I mean, while not every woman considers financial security a big deal in relationships, you’ll agree with me that a considerably larger percentage of women around the world today do consider it a big deal. Just take a look around you, and see how many financially less secure men are in a real relationship, you’ll find that the number is quite appalling. There are more single men than there should be… Even the few who manage to win over a woman’s heart often end up being dumped as soon as she finds a richer admirer. This new trend (i say ‘new’ only because it wasn’t this bad, in my opinion) has completely changed everything. I remember when getting a woman to love you was only based on physical appearance and personality. Now, it’s different – and i think the reason for this is because no woman wants to suffer or work hard enough to be able to provide for her needs. They all want to depend on the man for everything… even their own survival.<\/p>\n

I think it is very bad actually, because for me, this new trend goes against the very essence of relationships and dating which is love and companionship, as against gold-digging, and over- dependence on the other party.\u00a0 Because that’s exactly what it is; gold- digging; when you go into a relationship or affair for reasons other than love and genuine emotional attachment, obviously, gold- digging is the motive. And of course, the women who are guilty of this will try to disagree with my stance, but I speak the truth. More women are increasingly running after money and affluence in men instead of love—unfortunately.<\/p>\n

Click below to read ViV\u2019s opinion <\/b><\/p>\n

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ViV<\/b><\/p>\n

There are two types of women basically, the one who wants a man for who he is and the one who wants a man for what he is; but a lot of the times men find themselves going after women who want them for what they are and still blame women for their perceived poor judgement and decision.<\/p>\n

Worse still, I\u2019ve seen a lot of men leave women who have been with them and supported them through their struggles to be with women who only care about their success. So in my opinion, both sexes can point accusing fingers at each other.<\/p>\n

Success is endearing; like they say \u2018success has many fathers\u2019. Being successful is attractive, so you would find not just women, but men as well being attracted to you for your success. It isn\u2019t just with men, men are also attracted to women that are successful in their fields, and the women also face hard decisions in knowing who really loves them for who they are.<\/p>\n

Also, you can\u2019t expect a woman to fall for a man who isn\u2019t motivated in life, has no zeal and plan for a proper future, who doesn\u2019t care about tomorrow. Everyone wants what\u2019s best for them and I don\u2019t think anyone (male or female) would love a future with someone who isn\u2019t just cut out to succeed in life.<\/p>\n

A good woman would see the good in you and love you for who you really are; but a lot of men would choose a trophy woman over that good woman.<\/p>\n

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That\u2019s our take on today\u2019s edition on Elcrema Sunday Love Special; can you really say women are only interested in already made men?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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