{"id":14498,"date":"2015-04-06T07:19:19","date_gmt":"2015-04-06T06:19:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=14498"},"modified":"2019-02-10T08:32:47","modified_gmt":"2019-02-10T07:32:47","slug":"6-important-decisions-every-woman-must-be-ready-to-make-after-finding-out-that-her-man-has-been-cheating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/6-important-decisions-every-woman-must-be-ready-to-make-after-finding-out-that-her-man-has-been-cheating\/","title":{"rendered":"6 IMPORTANT DECISIONS EVERY WOMAN MUST BE READY TO MAKE AFTER FINDING OUT HER MAN HAS BEEN CHEATING"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Finding out that your man has been cheating on you especially if you have been entirely faithful in the relationship can be a very hurtful experience.<\/p>\n

Yes, you have been hurt; all your defences have been blown away, but like in every other situation, life must go on.<\/p>\n

Every woman has a decision to make after she\u2019s found out that her man has been cheating on her, and it boils down to two major things: can you continue with the relationship or would you rather leave?<\/p>\n

1. IS CONTINUING THE RELATIONSHIP WORTH IT OR NOT?<\/b><\/p>\n

This is the boldest decision to make after finding out that your man has been cheating; you need to ask yourself very important questions and its answer should boil down to two important factors \u2013 you and your man. Are you ready to survive with the relationship and make it work after that? Do you still love your man even after finding out that he\u2019s been unfaithful? Then your man: was it a mistake he\u2019s ruing or one he enjoyed? Is he ready to make up for his mistakes and be honest afterwards? Does he still love you? Is he one that would make same mistake again in the future? The answers to these questions hold a lot of weight to whether continuing the relationship is actually worth it.<\/p>\n

2. IF YOU CONTINUE, YOU OUGHT TO ERASE THE MEMORIES<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay if you feel that you can continue with the relationship, but it wouldn\u2019t be okay if you continue that relationship and make every bit of it a reminder that your man cheated on you; if you have forgiven him then let it be, it\u2019s not easy but for the relationship\u2019s sake it\u2019s worth it. Your actions and reactions thereafter would mean a lot in whether that relationship would survive or die out.<\/p>\n

3. TALK THINGS OUT<\/b><\/p>\n

A lot of talking has to go on; you should bare your mind and your man should too; total honesty is needed at this point. Talking things out with your partner would surprise you on a lot of things you would learn afterwards.<\/p>\n

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4. TAKE A BREAK IF NEED BE<\/b><\/p>\n

If you need time out to sort yourself then you should take a break from that relationship. During that break you can really understand whether it\u2019s necessary to continue with the relationship or forge ahead with your life. If you want a clearer mind, then you need to take a break; but if you feel everything has been sorted out with him then there\u2019s probably no need for the break.<\/p>\n

5. DON\u2019T BE JUDGMENTAL <\/b><\/p>\n

Just like the second tip, you should be ready to forgive and curb every judgmental thinking or approach in that relationship. Once you start the blame game, being judgmental, pointing accusing fingers every now and then, then your relationship would tear apart. It\u2019s better not to continue the relationship than to continue the relationship with these traits. But remember, you should be sure that continuing the relationship is worth it.<\/p>\n

6. IF IT DOESN\u2019T PAN OUT WELL, END THE RELATIONSHIP<\/b><\/p>\n

Months and months after the relationship have tried to move ahead from there, if it doesn\u2019t work out then it just might not work out. If you have put in your best efforts to make sure the relationship gets better than even before and it didn\u2019t, then there would be no harm if you and your partner kiss each other goodbye.<\/p>\n

Being cheated upon is never a good feeling, but there are decisions that should be made thereafter and every cheated partner should endeavour to take these practical steps.<\/p>\n

Have you had a cheating man as a partner? What did you do afterwards?<\/p>\n

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