{"id":13815,"date":"2015-02-23T10:24:50","date_gmt":"2015-02-23T09:24:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=13815"},"modified":"2019-02-08T00:36:31","modified_gmt":"2019-02-07T23:36:31","slug":"5-reasons-your-man-is-the-problem-not-the-side-chic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/5-reasons-your-man-is-the-problem-not-the-side-chic\/","title":{"rendered":"5 REASONS YOUR MAN IS THE PROBLEM, NOT THE SIDE CHIC"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Most times when ladies see their man with another woman, they tend to get furious and heap attacks on the woman, having a fight with her and even embarrassing her as well.<\/p>\n

The problem really isn’t the woman, and the solution isn’t fighting the other woman. I would share five reasons why you should blame your man and not the side chic.<\/p>\n

1. IF YOUR MAN IS PROMISCUOUS THEN HE’S PROMISCUOUS <\/b><\/p>\n

A man that’s unfaithful is unfaithful, and no matter how much you fight the other ladies, he would still cheat. By fighting the other ladies, you even give him leverage to cheat more, just that he would be more discreet this time.<\/p>\n

2. HE PROBABLY DID THE CHASING <\/b><\/p>\n

In most cases, the man sees the side chic, becomes interested in her and goes after her as well. Sometimes, men also fabricate lies of not being married or not being in a relationship, even if they are in one, just to get another lady. So from this, you can also see that the man is also the problem.<\/p>\n

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3. EVEN IF SHE DID THE CHASING… <\/b><\/p>\n

Even if the side chic did the chasing, your man had every opportunity to choose if to have an affair with her or not. If he chose to cheat on you with a lady because she wants him then it’s his fault because he wasn’t forced into the affair and didn’t exercise enough maturity to do the right thing \u2014 which is to stick to his lady.<\/p>\n

4. THERE WOULD STILL BE SO MANY OTHER LADIES <\/b><\/p>\n

There are lots of women in this world, and so many would also get attracted to your man; women somehow get attracted to a man that’s in a relationship and even one that’s married, so how many would you go on fighting? That lady is nowhere near the problem; your man wanted a piece of her cake and she obliged.<\/p>\n

5. YOUR MAN DIDN’T RESPECT YOU ENOUGH <\/b><\/p>\n

Every man should show his lady respect, and one way he can do that is by being faithful. Faithfulness shows that your man respects your feelings enough not to hurt it, and cheating on you just shows he totally doesn’t respect your feelings, especially if he repeatedly cheats on you. So, you can’t blame the side chic for your man’s failings.<\/p>\n

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Blaming and fighting the side chic is like cutting the branch of a tree and expecting the tree to wither off; if you can’t take off the roots then that tree would keep on growing.<\/p>\n

I hate it when two ladies have to fight themselves over a man who would still go on flirting.<\/p>\n

Shawn\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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