{"id":12287,"date":"2014-12-14T16:28:27","date_gmt":"2014-12-14T15:28:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=12287"},"modified":"2014-12-14T16:28:27","modified_gmt":"2014-12-14T15:28:27","slug":"what-would-you-call-your-dream-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/what-would-you-call-your-dream-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"WHAT WOULD YOU CALL YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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People have their dream cars, dream house, dream jobs and so many other things they dream of but not many times have we heard of a dream relationship.<\/p>\n

Today is another segment of our Elcrema Sunday Love special which holds every two Sundays; a segment dedicated strictly to discussions about relationships as it affects everyone.<\/p>\n

Today’s topic is slightly different as we have to search within our soul to provide an answer to this question.<\/p>\n

I would be handling this with Drama; we would both share our views on what our dream relationship is\u2014we would be delighted to know yours too.<\/p>\n

First let’s read what Drama sees as a dream relationship<\/p>\n

Drama <\/b><\/p>\n

Everyone has a dream relationship. You know, that relationship you wanna have; your ideal relationship. Here’s mine…For starters, If I’m gonna be in a relationship with you must be decent-looking. I’m not saying you have to be as pretty as one of those Victoria\u2019s secret models, but you must be good-looking, reason being that I wanna be able to introduce you to people, and be proud while at it. Again, you must be smart. I don’t wanna be in a relationship with a woman who cannot add value to me mentally. You must be mentally strong, and willing to assist me with some of the challenges I may face.<\/p>\n

I wanna be in a relationship with a woman who breathes decorum. She knows how to talk to her man, and people around her. I want a relationship where there’s full understanding between myself and the woman because in the absence of it, there’s confusion, endless quarrelling. I want a relationship where there’s unbroken communication, where I’m able to pass my emotions across to her without any restrictions. A relationship devoid of nagging, cheating, deception, and disrespect.<\/p>\n

In other words, my dream relationship is a ‘perfect relationship’. And of course, I know we don’t always get what we want, but one can only dream. Lol.<\/p>\n

Click below to read Shawn’s opinion of his dream relationship <\/b><\/p>\n

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Shawn <\/b><\/p>\n

I think we are in an era where many people have gotten their dream cars and houses but haven’t even got a taste of their dream relationship; in fact many have settled for a relationship where they can just endure because all hopes of having a dream relationship has been dashed away.<\/p>\n

Back to the subject, my dream relationship isn’t delusional or living in the romance novels, the first thing that strikes me as a dream relationship is a relationship where understanding would thrive. Forget all the fanfare and public display of affection, if there is no understanding in that relationship then there is nothing to dream about such a relationship; in short, a lack of understanding would mean a catastrophic relationship.<\/p>\n

Understanding to me is a relationship essential, through understanding you can build so many other things in the relationship and it wouldn’t just be a dream relationship to only you, others would even model their relationship after yours. Understanding is the secret of every successful relationship.<\/p>\n

A dream relationship isn’t a relationship where I would just find a partner, it’s a relationship where I’d find love and in that love I’d find friendship, passion and a commitment to each other. All these traits would grow and blossom after understanding has been built in that relationship.<\/p>\n

My dream relationship doesn’t have to appeal to the world; it’s my business and not the world’s business; as far as I find love and happiness in that relationship then that’s my dream relationship.<\/p>\n

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What’s your dream relationship?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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