{"id":11622,"date":"2014-11-16T18:36:05","date_gmt":"2014-11-16T17:36:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/?p=11622"},"modified":"2014-11-16T18:36:05","modified_gmt":"2014-11-16T17:36:05","slug":"is-it-okay-for-a-woman-to-ask-a-man-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elcrema.com\/is-it-okay-for-a-woman-to-ask-a-man-out\/","title":{"rendered":"IS IT OKAY FOR A WOMAN TO ASK A MAN OUT?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Smiling<\/a><\/p>\n

This is another edition of Elcrema Sunday Love Special and our topic for today is about women and if it’s OK to ask a man out.<\/p>\n

Does it have to be the man doing the asking regularly or if a woman meets a man she likes, should she make advances at him and probably ask him to be in a relationship with her?<\/p>\n

In a nutshell Drama and I (Shawn) would throw more light on the subject and our opinions regarding this relationship question.<\/p>\n

SHAWN <\/b><\/p>\n

I think as far as relationships are concerned it’s okay for a woman to make little advances to a man she finds attractive but going all the way might not really be that advisable.<\/p>\n

Morally, it isn’t wrong when it’s the woman that’s doing the asking out but it could backfire on the long run. Men could be lions sometimes, the prey they enjoy most are the ones they caught themselves and laboured for, not the one gifted to them easily.<\/p>\n

Men are hunters, they love to chase and sometimes when the clock is reversed and they are being chased, they could take it for granted.<\/p>\n

Yea, you might want to say that we are in the modern era and that doesn’t count, but it doesn\u2019t mean that men have lost that old-fashioned instinct of valuing a lady that caught their own eye and they laboured for, not the other way round.<\/p>\n

So my advice is, if you like a man, make advances at him but if he doesn’t deem it upon himself to carry on from there then he just might not be interested. If a man isn’t interested in you and he enters a relationship with you, that relationship would hardly ever pan out well.<\/p>\n

Click below to read Drama’s opinion <\/b><\/p>\n

\"Smiling<\/a><\/p>\n

DRAMA <\/b><\/p>\n

Well, I think it’s not ok for a lady to ask a man out. It’s not ladylike and it’s not in line with nature’s arrangement. The man is naturally intended take the lead; he should be the one to initiate most talks or events in relationship(s).<\/p>\n

Men like to be in charge; it’s in our nature, so it may make one feel somewhat inadequate when a lady takes up the role of a man by making a relationship proposal—most men wouldn’t have any of that.<\/p>\n

Again, one of the reasons it\u2019s not right for a woman to ask a man out is because the society today believes women should be sought after by men, and not the other way round; mostly because women are thought to be reserved and patient so it’s usually perceived to be overly desperate when women ask men out. Personally, I do not really appreciate a woman walking up to me to ask me out; it’s a little weird. If you like me, there are a lot of ways you can pass the message across without being too direct. You can give me hints (I’ll decode your intent, just like any smart man would), and I’ll take it up from there. I usually find it difficult to appreciate any woman that’s bold enough to walk up to a man and straight-up tells him she digs him because I always feel women like that are not trust-worthy—but then, there may be exceptions.<\/p>\n

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What’s your take on the subject: is it ok for a woman to ask the man out, not too ok or a combination of both?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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