WOULD YOU ATTEND YOUR EX-LOVE’S WEDDING AND BE HAPPY? BE HONEST

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Shawn

My ex-love’s wedding and be happy? That’s a big one.

I clearly don’t think I’d want to attend the wedding in the first place, except it’s a relationship I’ve totally moved on from. But if it’s that ex you wish you never lost then it would really be a big test on your feelings and emotions.

First, all through the wedding you would be fighting a battle with your emotions. You would be under pressure to keep a happy face even though deep within you there’s a mixed reaction, and that in itself would make you uncomfortable all through the wedding.

Your mind might also be wishing and thinking it was you and that ‘once special’ person saying the vows together. Even if you try to be strong at such times, your heart might fail you.

Finally, even if you pull through with putting up a decent appearance at the wedding, what about the aftermath? You might put your feelings at risk, because the next few days or weeks might see you feeling butt hurt, even if you have a partner. You would also put yourself under unnecessary pressure, because your partner would scrutinize you to make sure you have no feelings for your old love. So in many ways, you would be fighting a battle which you might probably never win.

You can’t cheat your heart no matter how much you try to; if you loved that person and always wanted that person back then attending that wedding would only make you jealous and feel uneasy. So instead of stirring up old emotions, I’d rather be at home.

So if I’m to be honest; no, I wouldn’t attend my ex-love’s wedding.

 

Would you?

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4 Comments on "WOULD YOU ATTEND YOUR EX-LOVE’S WEDDING AND BE HAPPY? BE HONEST"

  1. I really like this site but I can’t read next pages of such an interesting topics …how u enable to read next pages in my iphone

    • Just under the “continue reading in next page” statement are numbers. click number 2 to go to page 2. Thanks Yasin

  2. Hmm I think I would attend my ex’s wedding I mean his just an ex afterall

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