WHY MARRIED MEN CHEAT

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Cheating is a common occurrence, not just in premarital relationships, but also in marriage. It is not unique to any sex, but most people tend to agree that men are bigger cheats or infidels than women. Although, this has not exactly been proven, I think it may not be far from the truth. Lol. Perhaps this is because more men have been caught in the act than women; but that’s by the way.

The real question is why do married men cheat? Why would a man who supposedly has the woman of his dreams decide to have an affair outside his marriage? I thought about it for a bit, and came up with the following possible answers…

 

1. INABILITY TO CONTROL LUSTFULNESS

The reason most men cheat isn’t because there’s a woman out there who has made it a mission to seduce them and make them break their marital vows; the reason they do it is simply because they cannot control their lustful desires towards other women. Lustfulness is something that a lot of men face due to the human nature, but respectable and honourable men never cave into the temptation; they fight and avoid it because they know it is wrong. Only weak men fall for it, and they are the ones who cheat on their wives.

2. SOME WOMEN LOSE THEIR WAY AFTER MARRIAGE

For most men, it’s not the temptation outside that’s the problem; it is that their wives are no longer who they were before the marriage. Some women stop looking attractive for their husband, some choose to give the children more attention than their husband, some become nags, and some stop being romantic after marriage. These things are what drive most men into having an affair outside marriage.

3. SOME LADIES RUN AFTER MARRIED MEN

There are ladies out there who only find married men attractive. They’d desperately seduce anyone they can find within their reach, until he indulges their desires. A lot of men have fallen prey to these sorts of women.

4. BAD COMPANY

There’s a reason why it’s said that married people should be wary of the sort of friends they keep. A married man who keeps party monsters and womanizers as friends may one day find himself doing the same things they do. This is because they’ll most likely pressure him into doing it.

 

So those were some of the basic reasons why I think married men cheat. Remember, this is not in any way an attempt to justify cheating in any manner, it is wrong, and no man of class who has some respect for both himself and his wife would ever cheat on his own wife.

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2 Comments on "WHY MARRIED MEN CHEAT"

  1. Evans Lwambula | April 12, 2016 at 7:08 pm |

    Nice article. very informative too. Kkeep it up guys.

  2. Here in Namibia most ladies use witchcraft to get married and in that case because this marriage is based on true love or true feeling people cheat, and to my opinion i think in most case people marry for the sake of pleasing their parents because that’s the women they want and you end up leaving the women you love and want to marry. But because you don’t love this person you later on want the women you love but you have made that mistake of marrying the one the your parents wanted.

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