Love could be such a difficult thing sometimes and the emotions that come with love could be a bit confusing. When you love someone and you are loved in return, you feel great and cherished. But how about when you love someone and she turns you down?
From a man’s perspective, being turned down by a woman could be a truly heartbreaking experience and a lot of men don’t know how to handle the aftermath of such heartbreak.
The truth remains, not everyone you love will love you back, so in the school of relationship and love, you must be ready to face such situations, but it shouldn’t let you give up on the precious four letter word called LOVE.
It’s important to note that opening up to a woman about how you feel for her takes a lot of strength and it’s okay to do so, and there are always two outcomes — she either accepts you or she doesn’t.
What if she accepts you? Beautiful! But it shouldn’t end there, go on to build a good and true relationship with her. Don’t take her for granted simply because she gave you her heart.
So, what if she doesn’t feel the same way? You must be braced up for that and you must come to the understanding that life goes on.
It takes a real man to open up to his emotions and tell a lady how he truly feels. It’s not compulsory for her to say no, but you shouldn’t let that deter you. Pick yourself and be the best man you can be, some other deserving lady will say YES.
Pick yourself up brothers, being turned down might hurt, but don’t let that keep you from what lies ahead.
Shawn