WHAT’S YOUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS? SINGLE, IN A RELATIONSHIP OR IT’S COMPLICATED?

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I love Facebook for one reason; it’s one social media that gives you the opportunity to describe your relationship status perfectly. When you check a person’s profile and see their relationship status, you have an idea what’s going on in their lives and if they probably would be available for a relationship.

The ‘I’m single’ status is plain and straightforward; it reveals that you aren’t emotionally connected to anyone at the moment, and of course this could attract potential suitors your way. However, I’ve seen people who are in relationships fill the ‘single’ status.

The ‘in a relationship’ status is also another straightforward relationship status. It shows you’re romantically connected to someone and you aren’t ashamed to do so. This surely would keep a lot of potential suitors away, even though the ones who believe they have a chance would always try. Also, some people put this status even though they’re single to put off people.

However, one status that really triggers my mindset and baffles me at the same time is the ‘it’s complicated’ status. What could make being single or in a relationship complicated? What’s the explanation for the status ‘it’s complicated’? I mean, it’s either you’re in a relationship or you aren’t right?

When is or what is the best time to tick the ‘it’s complicated’ status? Is it when you and your partner just had a quarrel that could threaten the length of the relationship? Is it when you caught your partner cheating and you want out? Is it when the relationship keeps going back and forth and you don’t understand where it’s heading? In all honesty, is there really a relationship status like ‘it’s complicated’?

Sometimes, people believe their relationship status is complicated not because they don’t love their partner, but because they don’t know where they stand in their partner’s life. The answer to this complication is simple: it’s better to remain and tag yourself as being single than being with a partner that doesn’t show enough desire to want you.

The ‘it’s complicated’ relationship status shows stagnation in your relationship and love life. It might not sound like a big deal, but it really is. Everyone ought to know and be sure of their relationship status. What’s your relationship status?

Shawn        

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