Ladies have different reasons for choosing a man; what one lady might see in a man might totally differ from what another might see; what attracts Miss A would totally differ from what would attract Miss B.
If you ask every young lady at age 18 to write what they would love in their ideal man; the list of things might be quite superficial. Fast forward to seven years later when that same lady is about 25 years old, and the list would almost totally differ from the one she wrote some years back; you wouldn’t even believe it was written by same person.
However, one thing that I’ve noticed is that ladies most times even settle down or fall in love with a man that’s so different from their ideal man. Is it a case of the available becoming the desirable or the desirable becoming unavailable or it’s just a matter of the heart being swayed like a pendulum?
What are the criteria ladies really choose for their ideal man? If it’s wealth, looks, career path, family background and all of the sort, you won’t be wrong for terming this a superficial ideal man. The hardest of criminals and gangsters have a woman or women in their lives; I’ve never seen a lady saying she would love a criminal as an ideal man; but how come so many end up with them?
I can go on with so many examples to prove that an ideal man is just a word that only exists in the dictionary. Ladies want a different kind of man and end up being with someone entirely different; is it that the ideal man doesn’t exist or is the brain tricked into having an ideal man?
Who is your ideal man? Is there even anything like an ideal man is one question I seem to carry at the back of my head because getting that ideal man is as hard as uprooting a tree with bare hands. I’ve come to notice that the ideal man for most ladies is never constant and it changes with time. Maybe the ideal man is just that man the heart falls for without minding every other factor.
Shawn