Sometimes, we just fall so in love with someone that it becomes difficult to fall out of love with the person. Even if we honestly do want to get that person off our mind, our heart won’t let us; it’s more like our heart is playing a fast one on us.
Some relationships can be so bonding and its ties so unique that deep down after a break up, you just still wish you could be with that person at least one more time, every time; that’s the power of love.
Forgetting someone who once made you happy might be such a huge task. Sometimes we tell ourselves that huge lie that we have moved on but deep in our subconscious, we know ‘that ex’ took away a big part of us.
I’ve felt this way and I’m quite sure you must have too.
I bring you 7 top signs you are still into your ex.
1. FACEBOOK AND OTHER SOCIAL MEDIA
You know that feeling when you just go on social media and see yourself once in a while going through his/her pics; smiling, remembering and wishing in the process till you suddenly come to the realization that you shouldn’t be creeping up on your ex. Well, you know that you still haven’t moved on when you do this.
2. HOPING HE/SHE SOMEDAY REGRETS HIS/HER DECISION
When you secretly wish your ex regrets his/her decision and wants you back then you should know that you are still into your ex. When you secretly wish that he/she just calls you one day just to say “I’m sorry, I want you back”; then that means you still have big interest in your ex.
3. YOU STILL THINK OF HIM/HER
If months or years after a break up, you still think deeply about your ex and all the moments you had and all his/her good qualities, then you have clearly not forgotten your ex. The truth is, if you hate your ex, the only thoughts (if it ever comes) you would have of him/her would be thoughts of the bad he/she has done; if you and your ex only turned out to be friends thereafter, there also won’t be much thoughts about him/her. But when you mostly think about the good times and pleasurable moments you have had with your ex, when your ex mostly takes you to dreamland and you even brush aside the bad he/she put you through, you are totally into your ex.
4. YOU STILL TRY TO GET HIS/HER ATTENTION
Now this one just clearly shows you haven’t moved on. When you just do things to make that ex notice you, then I’m sorry to say, your ex still means a lot to you. If you are not into your ex then you won’t even care if your ex notices you, but when you consciously want to get his/her attraction, then you just might still have a lot for your ex.
5. YOU STILL THINK HE/SHE THINKS ABOUT YOU
When you secretly wish your ex is thinking of you, or you think your ex must have been thinking of you, then you’re probably into your ex. By doing this, it clearly shows that you are thinking about your ex and you just wish he/she would feel same way.
6. YOU STILL CHERISH THE THINGS YOU BOTH USED TO DO
When you still cherish, value and do all what you and your ex used to, then you just might still be in love with your ex. It could be a song, a movie, an act, a game or anything that you guys used to love doing; if you haven’t still moved on from them then you still have that ex in mind because every of those actions would make you remember and miss all the moments you guys had.
7. YOU GET JEALOUS YOUR EX IS WITH SOMEONE
One funny thing about an ex you still care about is; you secretly wish he/she doesn’t date someone else, and when you notice someone with your ex, you get jealous. Also, you get extremely jealous if you find out that your ex is dating someone else. The funny part is you might even be in a relationship but you still just want your ex to be alone; I don’t know if I’d call that selfishness or being”crazy in love”.
However, there is nothing wrong when you miss your ex, it just shows that you were sincere about your emotions. You only miss people you care about.
In the same vein, I can’t tell if going back to your ex is a good idea; what might work for Mr. A might fail for Mr. B; it just depends on how the bond between you guys were.
Shawn