I have said it time and again that there really is no such thing as a perfect human being. We’re an imperfect specie, however, there are levels of imperfection. While you can’t get a totally flawless partner, you can get something very close. Sometimes, they come ready-made, and other times, they need your help to completely be who they’re meant to be. But don’t forget, even when they look like the finished article, you still need to keep them in check and help them continually grow. For that, I have a few things I think you’re required to do in order to achieve that objective.
UNDERSTAND HIS VISION, AND FLOW WITH IT
Every man has something they’re gunning for and looking to achieve at some point, as the woman in his life, it’s your responsibility to help him get there by offering your support in every way imaginable.
CHEER HIM ON ALWAYS
There’ll be days and times when he feels nothing is worth it anymore, and probably want to quit his dreams, during those times, you’re the one meant to keep him going. Failed move or not, rejected or not, don’t let it get to him. The more you cheer him, the bigger and stronger his confidence is.
HELP MANAGE HIS MONEY
There are extravagant men out there, who can’t save something for the rainy day; as their significant other, it’s your responsibility to help them change that. Help manage his income and save for tomorrow. You know what his dreams and goals are. He can’t get there without a proper savings culture, and it’s up to you to see that he does.
TELL HIM THE TRUTH AND CORRECT HIM WHEN HE’S WRONG
He’ll make wrong moves sometimes, he’ll do the wrong things sometimes, stuff that can derail his objective. The only way to ensure he finds himself and does not stay on the wrong path is if you help him. Don’t be afraid to point out his wrongs when you see them. Don’t look the other way, say it, and correct him so he doesn’t spiral.
MANAGE HIS FLAWS
We all have flaws, but we can overcome them if we have someone strong around, to give us encouragement and love us in spite of it. You have to know your man’s weaknesses and learn to manage them. Do not let them get the better of him
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