Lots of women really have this belief that a relationship would only be very successful when the man loves the woman more than the woman loves the man. They believe it makes him serious in the relationship and makes him value the relationship even.
Do you think it’s true?
Welcome to another edition of the Elcrema Sunday Love Special; today’s topic promises to be even more interesting as we would have three different people writing their opinion from three different perspective; but do you think a relationship is more successful when the man loves more than the woman?
Read on to see what Shawn, Viv and Drama feel about this issue.
Shawn
Do I believe that the relationship is more successful when the man is more in love than the woman? Capital NO! When a man is more in love than the woman in a relationship or marriage, it would translate to a man bearing the excesses for a relationship to succeed, it would mean a woman putting up all manner of nonchalant attitude and taking things for granted just because the man is deeply in love; in essence, when a man is more in love than the woman in a relationship, it simply means the man understands the concept of a relationship more, it means he deserves a partner that would love him just as much as he loves her. But it also doesn’t mean that the woman should as well love the more.
For a relationship to be successful it entails two people who are in love with each other and are ready to give a hundred percent for the relationship to succeed; not 70 percent, not 80, not even 99 percent, but 100 percent…and it ought to come from both partners.
No partner is right when they withhold or withdraw their love, most people do this in a bid not to get hurt, but this in itself defeats what a relationship stands for; both partners ought to give their all, and then only would the relationship be successful… it would be unfair for the weight of a relationship to fall on one partner.
Click below to read Viv’s opinion
I totally agree with Drama, that’s on point..
The man acts maturely when he loves more, otherwise he’s more prone to cheat and misbehave
Maturity is always key to preserving a relationship… imo
I do agree with the last view which call for mauturity, it holds the key to a long relationship.