If you go around asking this question, it’s obvious what the response would be. Men would say it’s the men while women would root for women. So since we have no chance of getting a good response, it’s time to meet the researchers and see what they have got for us.
Researchers at American college UC Berkeley found that for a marriage to be a happy one, it’s important the wife keeps her cool during an argument than the husband.
The study used 80 couples and the researchers had been tracking them since 1989.
The study confirms a long held believe that wives are peacemakers in a relationship. Interesting, can see some women smiling already.
Well before the women start celebrating, a co-author of the study, Claudia Haase made the point that as gender roles have shifted and changed over the years, the dynamics of the middle-aged couples in the sample may not be reflective of young couples today.
So why the research is true for older couples, it still can’t find a solution to our debate for younger couples.
So who would give us the solution to this problem?
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