Men aren’t the only ones guilty of being overly physical and wanting the ‘not-so-necessary’ when it comes to choosing a relationship partner; women are just as guilty. Like men, they crave and desire certain qualities and features from the guy they want, and if you fit the profile, you may be hired. Lol.
Top on the list is MONEY; call it Benjamins or paper if you choose to, but women have proven time and again, that money speaks louder to them than any other feature you may think of. Most women would deny this, but deep down, they know they want to have a man who is super-rich. In fact, some women would even tell you that they don’t need their man to be as rich as Bill Gates or Warren Buffett, but if he’s able to provide their basic needs, they’re cool with that. Lol. So the truth is; no woman wants a broke man. They all want someone who’s at least comfortable enough to provide for them. And can you blame them? I’d do the same if I were a woman. Lol.
So, we’ve seen one of the things women consider appealing in men. What are the other 6? Read on…
1. HANDSOMENESS
Ask a lady who her dream man is, and she’ll say, ‘tall and handsome’. No lady ever fails to include handsomeness as a criterion. They want someone who’s good-looking and appealing to the eyes, someone they can confidently introduce to their friends and family. For some women, their excuse for always wanting a good-looking man is because they don’t want to have unattractive kids. But I ask, if every lady marries a handsome man, who’ll marry the not-so-good-looking guys?
2. ABILITY TO MAKE THEM LAUGH
Look around you, think of all the comedians you know; Trevor Noah, Kevin Hart, Basketmouth, Alibaba etc. they all have pretty women in their lives either as their wives or girlfriends. There’s something about a guy who can make women laugh, and women find it irresistible. So all you not-so-funny guys, go horn your comedy skills. Haha.
3. GENTLEMANLINESS
Ladies love guys who put them first in everything. He opens doors for his woman to get in, he helps strap her sandals, he understands she’ll be home late and cooks dinner, and he’s always there when she needs him. That’s a gentleman right there— women can’t get enough of him.
4. GOOD FASHION SENSE
The same way you want a girl who knows how to combine her colours, and match outfits, that’s the same way women want their men. They want a man with a good sense of style, who’s neat and keeps his home and self clean all the time.
5. INTELLIGENCE
Women don’t want a man who has to depend on them for answers all the time; they want it to be the other way round. They want someone who’s smart, and can spot an opportunity from miles away.
6. GOOD SEX SKILLS AND STAMINA
This is the one a lot of women like to pretend about, perhaps because of the society they find themselves in. The truth is that women love sex as much as men do, and you gotta be doing it right for them to really enjoy it. Women want a man who can take them all the way in bed; someone who’s not scared to invent new things in bed, and who knows how to touch all the right spots. Why do you think most women cling to the not-so-good-looking men? If he isn’t super-rich, his sex must be the bomb!
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