As a woman, you usually have different kinds of men in your life. These guys come in different shapes and sizes, and usually have different motives for being around you. We’re summing them up into five, and looking at the reasons they’re around you.
YOUR EX BOYFRIEND
Ex boyfriends tend to always stay around. Their reasons for being there sometimes differ, depending on who they are. Some exes are there because they want to get back in your life, and others are there because they want to monitor your growth and progress, either ways, you want to be careful with them.
THE GUY WHO YOU PROMISED S**
There’s no guy who checks on you better than a man you promised to get intimate with. He will call, text, visit, and do pretty much anything to get what he wants. When he gets it, will the behaviour continue? I doubt it will. You want to stay away from people like this because they just want to hit and run.
THE GUY YOU’VE BEEN INTIMATE WITH BEFORE
He’s not necessarily your Ex; he’s just a guy you probably had a one off thing with, but because he had it good the last time, he just can’t let you be away for too long. He will bug your life with messages and calls until he gets what he wants. These guys are in the same category as the aforementioned.
THE MAN WHO LOVES YOU
Genuine love is real, and easy to spot. When someone loves you, they sacrifice their time and effort to be with you. They’ll call and check on you, and spoil you with love because they truly care.
YOUR CHILDHOOD BUDDY
There are two reasons a childhood friend will want to stay in touch. Either because they love your friendship, and want you around, or they just have a huge crush, and are waiting on their chance to be with you. Childhood friends are great to have around when they genuinely love you.