There have been a lot of posts about subjects like this one, but there’s a difference between this and them, and it’s simple – you can relate to, and actually do the things listed here. If you’ve been in a situation where you see your crush all the time, and you’re not sure how to get them to understand how you feel, this post will help you with that.
So let’s dive in! How do you get him to like you?
I’m a big advocate for expressing your feelings. Plus, this is the easiest way for someone to understand how you feel. If you tell him of your interest in him, there’s no way he can misinterpret that. You like him, and you told him you like him. Now, he knows exactly how you feel so he either accepts it or not.
It’s okay to play the mystery card, but why, really? It sounds exhausting and you wait for the guy to approach you.
Well, why not just open yourself and be more approachable. If you show a guy that you’re friendly and communicative, interested in talking to them, does it show you like them? Not necessarily, but it’s a good first step.
START A CONVERSATION
When you see him eating lunch alone or waiting in line for the elevator, be the first one to start a conversation.
Usually, men assume they should be the one to make the first move in everything, but why not mix it up a bit? This shows him you’re interested in talking to him and allows him to make the first move the next time he sees you. Show him that you’re interested.
MAKE EYE CONTACT
When we like someone, we stare at them. So why not look at them while they’re looking at you? Eye contact is one of the major signs we all watch out for when trying to see if someone is into us or not. If someone avoids eye contact with you, they’re not interested in you. However, if they stare at you while you look at them, it’s a clear sign that you are into each other. So, if you want him to know that you like him, look at him keenly.
I know this may seem elementary, but you would never approach a guy who’s always frowning and looking angry. So, why would a guy assume you’re interested in him if you look like that?
It’s time to put a smile on that face because he won’t know you’re interested in him if you don’t look at him and smile. But, of course, don’t force it. If you don’t feel like smiling, then don’t.
ASK HIM OUT
Now, you may be freaking out at this point, but don’t. When it comes to figuring out how to let a guy know you’re interested in him, this is definitely a strong first move, but that doesn’t make it bad. Why not ask him out? This clearly shows him you’re interested in getting to know him more. So, he probably will be more relaxed knowing you like him. And the first date jitters will simply vanish.
I know people say that he needs to text you first and that you need to wait a couple of hours to reply, but I don’t agree.
If you like him, just text him. Who cares about who texted who first? The point is that you’re interested in him, so he should know that. Send him a text and see if he replies. Who knows where it’ll lead you.
DO NOT FRIEND-ZONE YOURSELF
You’re not friends. Let’s just make this very clear. You don’t even want to be his friend; you want something more, right? So, don’t act like his friend in order to somehow weasel yourself into a relationship or dating position. You need to make it obvious that you’re interested in him more than just a friend. That way, neither of you waste your time.
DON’T PLAY GAMES
I know people love playing games. You know the whole “hot and cold” thing. Well, it’s boring, frankly. If you’re genuinely interested in him then you should be honest about how you feel. It’s easier for you in the long run as well. Say what you want and mean what you say.
You most likely flirt with him naturally because you want to be intimate with him. Flirting is the first step to intimacy. You basically build up a kind of tension by this. This is a clear sign men go by when figuring out if someone likes them. They see if this person flirts with him. If not, they most likely are unsure of where your intentions lie.