Men sometimes hurt their women with some of the things that they say and do, and they don’t even know when they make such mistakes. So, forgiving them for these little mistakes will make the relationship better.
These are some of those things.
1. WHEN HE CHECKS OUT OTHER WOMEN
Science has found that men are wired to check out other women, and most of the times they tend to forget that woman just after checking her out. So if you see your man checking out a lady, as disappointing and annoying as it could be, don’t take it to heart, just let it slide — as far as it doesn’t go beyond that.
2. WHEN HE FORGET EVENTS
So many thoughts run up and down a man’s mind and men are built to be problem solvers and to cater for the family. All these might make him forget certain events, even important ones like your birthday and anniversary. It isn’t that he doesn’t care; life’s events make it slip off sometimes. Inasmuch as it could be annoying to a lady, always try to forgive him when he does this — and he’d look for ways to appreciate you for that.
3. NOT NOTICE
I know you want him to notice your new hair, your new clothes and even your new underwear; women love attention and feel valued when they are noticed — women are wired this way. But it’s totally different with men, and a man’s mind is usually like a sports car, it travels far and wide. Don’t take him too serious when he doesn’t notice certain things; it’s never intentional.
4. WHEN HE DOESN’T LISTEN
A man could actually hear you without really listening to you; men do this a lot of the time because they are often distracted by many things at the same time. This is another thing a man does without knowing and he wants to be forgiven for it.
5. SLEEPING AFTER SEX
You might want your man to cuddle you and say sweet things to you or just spend time talking to you after a nice time in the sheet, but more often than not, he’d sleep off. This is only nature at work. After sex, sleep-induced chemicals such as oxytocin and serotonin are released in the man’s brain, causing him to sleep after sex.
6. FINDING YOUR THINGS BORING
Men and women like different things, and in a man’s eyes, what women like are really boring. Your choice of movies, soap operas and even things you want to talk about could bore him. Just let this one slide too.
7. WHEN HE DOESN’T KNOW WHAT TO DO
Sometimes pleasing a woman, especially when she’s unhappy could be the most difficult task for a man to do. He might want to be there for you and make you happy when you are sad or offended, but most times he doesn’t know what to do.
If your man is guilty of these 7 things, ladies, you ought to forgive him and let things slide. As long as he loves and cares about you, that’s all that matters.
Shawn