As a man, in a love relationship, you expect your woman to be honest and trusting about everything with you, however, research has proven time and again that there is a limit to what love can earn you sometimes.
As much as women tend to love with ‘everything’, they will keep some information from you, especially if it’s a sensitive one that could end up hurting your feelings and the relationship if you knew them. And I do not think that the decision signifies that they do not love us enough, but it’s about them just being human. So, without further ado, let us get to it. These are some of the things your woman may never tell you.
1. HER FIRST SEXUAL EXPERIENCE
This isn’t necessarily applicable to every relationship though, because, obviously, there are women who have been with just one man all their lives; I’m talking about women who have been with more than one man. Research has shown that the latter tend to remember their first sexual experience with great fondness, especially, if the relationship didn’t exactly end on a sour note, but you’ll never hear them disclose this to their man. Some even go the extent of lying about when they first had sex, adding between two to ten years to the original date.
2. THAT SHE FINDS OTHER MEN ATTRACTIVE TOO…
You know how men sometimes see a fine woman and check her out? Women also do that, and the thing about theirs is that they’ll never let their man know. A man may harmlessly, point out another woman’s beauty to his girl, and they both forget about it, but a woman will never be comfortable with doing that sort of thing. She’ll admire another good – looking man, and maybe joke about it with her friends, but not her man.
3. THAT SHE HATES DEPENDING ON YOU
A lot of young men have this twisted idea that women like living off men, but studies have shown that this is not correct. Contrary to this thought, women actually like to work for their own money and buy stuff that they need themselves, rather than have money handed to them every time. This is not to say that women don’t like being spoiled, no, they appreciate being gifted with great items, but not having cash handed to them. The average woman finds it insulting and degrading when you give her money, but she will not tell you, so you don’t feel unappreciated.
4. SHE DOES NOT TRUST YOU…NOT COMPLETELY
According to studies, women are more likely to be insecure in relationship than men. No matter how much she loves you or you try to prove your faithfulness to her, she’ll always have trust issues with you. I have been with some myself, so I know this for a fact. She may act like she’s cool with other women being ‘just friends’ with you, but deep inside, she wishes she could lock them all in a cell. She hates that you have a female secretary or close colleague at the office, and if she could, she’d put a tracker on you. Lol— but she may never voice these insecurities for fear of scaring you away.
5. SHE DOESN’T ENJOY COOKING REGULARLY
When a woman is in love a man, she’d do anything to keep him happy…even cook for him anytime he asks her to, but does she always enjoy it? Not according to studies. Studies say that women would rather eat out or order cooked food than do the cooking themselves, but if their man asks them to cook him up something, they’d do it without complaining.
So there you have it, fellas. I guess we all got something to hide, right?