A lot of women keep friends that aren’t healthy for their relationship. Many relationships/marriages have been destroyed by the friend(s) a woman keep.
For a woman, it’s just so easy to have their friends ruin their relationship, and these are some of the ways it happens:
1. THE BAD ADVISER
The bad adviser always has an advice for every situation, and more often than not, her advice might look good, but would end up ruining your relationship. Women love to meet each other for advise regarding their relationship, and end up taking the wrong ones. Be careful who you meet for advice or your relationship might be the one to suffer.
2. THE COMPETITIVE ONE
Some female friends take relationships as a competition; they try to overdo and outdo each other, and this would create unhealthy competition and comparisons that would make your relationship suffer.
3. THE ONE WHO ENCOURAGES YOU TO FLIRT WITH OTHER MEN
Some women would encourage you to be flirtatious and lead other men on, even when they know you are in a relationship. You should know that flirting is a form of cheating, and women like these aren’t good for your relationship.
4. THE ONE WHO ENCOURAGES YOU TO EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT
By eat your cake and have it, I mean you are in a relationship, but wouldn’t mind stringing one or two other men along. There are women who encourage this, and if you heed to their influence, you might end up cheating with other men and ruining your relationship.
5. THE ONE WHO HATES YOUR MAN AND DOESN’T MIND SHOWING IT
It’s not compulsory for your friend to like your man, but they shouldn’t show it or show any any form of disrespect to your man.
If your friend brings your man down and doesn’t treat him with respect, it could harm your relationship with your man or you could even end up losing interest in him.
6. THE ONE WHO WANTS TO TAG ALONG IN ALL YOUR DATES
There are friends who want to tag along in all or most of your dates, but this is wrong, and your man would definitely not like this.
7. THE ONE WHO SUGGESTS BETTER MEN FOR YOU
There are friends who keep suggesting so-called better men for you. They always have a better option and wouldn’t leave you to enjoy your relationship in peace. These kinds of friends aren’t healthy for your relationship.
8. THE ONE WHO FIGHT FOR YOUR ATTENTION
There are some friends who want to be with you all the time; they want your attention always and won’t mind trying to fight for your attention, while leaving your man starving of your attention. These kinds of friends would ruin the relationship you have with your man if you give them the chance to.
9. THE ONE WHO FLIRTS WITH YOUR MAN
You might have a cute man who the ladies love. Be careful of the friends who would try to flirt with him, or you might lose your man before you know it. Friends like these ruin relationships time without number.
10. THE JEALOUS FRIEND
Be careful of the jealous friend too. Jealousy is a bad trait that could push a person to do all manner of things. Be careful of the jealous friend because they might go out of their way to ruin their relationship.
11. THE ONE WHO BRINGS UP YOUR PAST
Your past is your past and should be in the past. Be careful of your friends that keep bringing the past up when you are with your man; they could put thoughts in your man’s head before you know it.
A lot of women have rued their lives because they have lost a relationship they valued or their relationships have suffered because of these friends mentioned above.