DO YOU NEED TO SPEND SO MUCH ON YOUR PARTNER TO PROVE THAT YOU CARE?

Hello everyone and welcome to this Sunday’s edition of Elcrema Sunday Love Special.

There’s a school of thought that believes you have to spend a lot on someone if you truly value that person. Does this mean you have to spend so much on your partner just to show your partner how much you care?

Drama and Shawn will share their opinions on this subject.

Drama

No you don’t! Money and spending do not really tell how much you love a person, per se. I believe so because there are two angles to that statement. If you have money to spend, then, it is expected that you spend some of it on your partner from time to time. Mark the key words, “if you have”.

But we also should understand that not everyone in a relationship or marriage has money to get their partner all the fancy things of life, and take them to fancy places. That doesn’t mean they don’t care, it means they just don’t have money to do it at that time. Money isn’t the only way love can be expressed. Money can spice up a couple’s love life, and that I’ll agree, but not that it shows you love someone. We have heard and read stories of people who are unhappy in their relationship even when they’re with a wealthy partner.

You do not need to have money to show someone you care, you can do that in other ways that don’t involve spending.

 

Click below to read Shawn’s opinion

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