Shawn
A question like this is best answered by the individual in question. On a personal basis, I would rather be with a partner who’s there for me and can create time for me, and when it comes to marriage, which is a much bigger and deeper union, then my partner ought to have enough time for me, just as I should create enough time for my partner.
However, we can’t deny how work situations can be and how demanding pursuing a career can be — and we also can’t deny that work, finance, money, career, goals and dreams are highly important.
Not everyone has a 9 – 5 job; some work from 9 – 9 and some even work at odd hours, while many have businesses or jobs that keep them away for so long; so there is a huge possibility that you could end up with a partner with a tight schedule.
Attention and communication are two important things everyone deserves in a relationship. While it’s so easy to want a partner who can be much freer and spend lots of time with you, it doesn’t guarantee that you would find happiness with them and that they would give you the attention you truly deserve. Many people have partners who don’t have demanding jobs and they have quite enough time, but they still don’t spend their time with their partners, neither do they give them the attention they crave. So, it’s not about who’s busy and who’s less busy when choosing a partner; it’s more about who’s there for you, who loves you, who can give you the attention you crave and who can stay true and committed to you.
The fact that a person is less busy doesn’t guarantee anything; if a partner is extremely busy but doesn’t put his / her job or career above you and still shows that you are what matters most and gives you his or her every attention then that’s what matters.
So, yes, I can date or marry an extremely busy partner who’s career driven but doesn’t value her career above me.
Would you be with such a busy partner?
I have really learned a lot,than u so much.