Hello everyone, welcome to another edition of Elcrema Sunday Love Special. Today’s topic is an interesting one and we hope you would love it.
There has been this age long debate on whether women are only interested in men that are already made – that are financially secure.
While most women tend to shrug off such talks, a lot of men maintain that most women only pick interest in men who are financially buoyant rather than also help in the development of the man.
What do you think? Do you think the size of a man’s pocket is a major determinant in whether he would have the ladies coming? Drama and ViV would share their opinions on this one.
Drama
On a first thought, i may be tempted to say no— because obviously not every living woman on earth today has set financial security as the primary condition on which she might consider dating any man, but on a second thought, i want to say a big ‘yes’ to the question. I mean, while not every woman considers financial security a big deal in relationships, you’ll agree with me that a considerably larger percentage of women around the world today do consider it a big deal. Just take a look around you, and see how many financially less secure men are in a real relationship, you’ll find that the number is quite appalling. There are more single men than there should be… Even the few who manage to win over a woman’s heart often end up being dumped as soon as she finds a richer admirer. This new trend (i say ‘new’ only because it wasn’t this bad, in my opinion) has completely changed everything. I remember when getting a woman to love you was only based on physical appearance and personality. Now, it’s different – and i think the reason for this is because no woman wants to suffer or work hard enough to be able to provide for her needs. They all want to depend on the man for everything… even their own survival.
I think it is very bad actually, because for me, this new trend goes against the very essence of relationships and dating which is love and companionship, as against gold-digging, and over- dependence on the other party. Because that’s exactly what it is; gold- digging; when you go into a relationship or affair for reasons other than love and genuine emotional attachment, obviously, gold- digging is the motive. And of course, the women who are guilty of this will try to disagree with my stance, but I speak the truth. More women are increasingly running after money and affluence in men instead of love—unfortunately.
Click below to read ViV’s opinion
To make matters worse they go for already married men.when they see a man driving they would definitely try to caught his attention(they assume he is rich)